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« Reply #15 on: December 05, 2011, 10:50:04 AM » |
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Lol.. glad I got my play time in Zinah, after reading that paragraph I'll be lucky to find you free for a long time.  My dance card always has a spot for you, Boss. Good,... full moon is arising and Ursus has his needs... awaiting for you to do your job. You know how nasty that can get. Greedy .... vary greedy |
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« Reply #16 on: December 05, 2011, 12:58:30 PM » |
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@ sexilicious  I know.... Janine, I must admit this game has given me a roller coaster ride. I dicovered so much about myself, my sexual preferences, even hidden layers that I, as a simple provincial guy, never suspected I harbored inside me. Your welcome means a lot to me Wether I am happy with these new depths, I am not sure.. Thoug tempting, tantalising, excrutiatingly arousing, there are still bonds that keep me back, telling me to keep control of the urge. Not sure how this will develope in the future. Has anyone ever ffelt they were close to going over the edge? Not saying I am, but the worry of losing competele control over what I do in a rush of lust, does stick in my mind... excuse me for drifting off topic, if I have... |
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« Reply #17 on: December 05, 2011, 02:28:35 PM » |
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I don't think you have. What I would first recommend is that you allow AChat to let you explore that part of yourself since consent is given by the person not exiting room.
Even then I would make sure you let those bonds loosen with lovers you are comfortable with, and you have spoken with on the matter. While spontaneity has it's allure the reality often makes more problems then issues when you spring that on someone.
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Speak my friend, you look surprised
I thought you knew I'd come disguised
On angel wings...in white
I can make your dreams come true
What a couple...me and you
On journey through the night
I will show you everything so vividly
You can't deny me
Kamelot "Descent of the Archangel"
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« Reply #18 on: December 05, 2011, 04:02:49 PM » |
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Well this is a definite place to explore that side of yourself Tight'. It's not about losing control, but rather imposing control via a change in choice of vocabulary and actions to create a confident persona. More than likely a partner has provided signals in the course of scene, the question sometimes is whether one is locked up in their own actions they read the signs there or not. One can achieve the same thru a regular partner by pushing the envelope a bit more each time. There in itself is a method of exploration which might provide you with a better comfort level.
As I noted before, I seldom let the whole cat out of the bag. I hold something back,...tease them in that regard, as each session escalates from the prior session.
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« Reply #20 on: December 05, 2011, 06:21:54 PM » |
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It was out long before she arrived on the scene... |
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« Reply #21 on: December 06, 2011, 08:45:58 AM » |
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Bear and Janine, thanks for your explanantion and wise recommendations.. It was actually the game itself that introduced me to this kind of play. And I was fortunate enough that someone special (you know who you are *kiss*) started a journey with me almost a year ago. Although it has been a mental exercise so far (not having been with a rl partner in a long time [too long to even mention here]), the feelings and urges are getting stronger. AChat does prvide a safe environment in which I can explore further, knowing that I am only a click away from an unlikeable experience (my partner in the room having the same possibility). Stealing words from a friend, the vanilla monster (the well socialised member of society) has still got a big inflluence on me. Having been imprinted heavily with showing respect to women, be a gentleman and no means no, I have an internal dialogue that tells me what I am doing and feeling isn't quite the way a 'normal' person would feel.. Having discovered the arousal giving into these urges brings me, and surprising friends (happily  ) when unleashing, definitly makes me consider sharing these feelings with my dearest friends and see who would consent with exploring them, help me release the bonds of the vanilla monster.. We'll see how it goes. I do know that I can come to you with my thoughts. That does make things a lot easier. Thanks guys |
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« Reply #22 on: December 06, 2011, 12:25:54 PM » |
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its not rape if you yell "surprise"
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« Reply #23 on: December 06, 2011, 12:33:26 PM » |
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Unless they are deaf,... trying to sign it out in American Sign Language takes a bit of the spontaneity out of it
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« Reply #24 on: December 06, 2011, 01:35:32 PM » |
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actually the sign language for "surprise" could be the most terrifying shit you'll ever see
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« Reply #25 on: December 06, 2011, 02:24:55 PM » |
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« Reply #26 on: December 06, 2011, 03:35:39 PM » |
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Well, Tight if you want to explore more I know of a very willing person who can help you out  with showing that side of yourself and question what kind of kiss to the you know who you are person we talking a very hot kiss or just a  like a little peck hehehehe i know i'm naughty |
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