Venting...

[MaxCraven]

Since this is a forum I need to get something off my chest, & of course feel free to agree/disagree with what I have to say, hell will be nice to know I'm not alone in this opinion. I've been part of AChat on & off for quite awhile now & everytime I come back I start to wonder why I did. At first I thought this was great, plenty of people to chat with, realistic (for the most part) animations ect. But now, now it's a miricle if one out of every dozen I try talking to responds with more than two words. I know this is a virtual world based around sex, but where's the content? where's the depth? If I just wanted to watch a couple of characters screw it'll be easier just watching porn. But maybe it's just me expecting too much to be treated as a living feeling male behind the pixels. I started on here as a kind of compensation for what I'm lacking in the real world & now it's becoming a copy of it. I've been to other virtual worlds but they aren't quite the same. Second Life there's more to do but its "cartoony", Red Light Center is ok if you don't mind constant glitches. Like I said maybe it's just me & expected a little too much realism in a virtual world instead of a game of one night stands & women whoring themselves out for new clothes. Anyways thats all I have to say, like it or not, let the praise/insults begin.....

[sinnnn]

Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds.  I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here.  I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it.  Its patients babes, patients.

[Lover]

you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds

    wonderful Sinnnn!!!

I welcome everyone who wants more then just a short fuck. Though I also accept people who exactly want this. If they find the right partners, ok. As Sinnnn I also met some asses, but most of all I found very nice & friendly people. I had wonderful talks with deep content. Here are some members who are more then an Avatar for me. And I also found a great love, though I was not searching for this.
Give yourself some time. And go on being friendly and talking, I'm sure you also find people who want to do more then just...
Look at this forum. Many questions and discussions about chat rooms and so on.
Good luck MaxCraven and head up

[bouli]

I agree with the above posters. Putting in some effort you'll find quite a few nice people. Treating them the same way you want to be treated or even better to make a good first impression. I thrive on making others feel special, if only for a few minutes/hours.

Yea, I'm an addict...

[sinnnn]

Umm Wow Lover I didn't know I was your great love.  Thanks kisses babes.  Just joking, lol.  Glad you found someone very special.  Thats my point, you keep looking an you'll never know what you'll find around that corner.   

Venting is a good thing, really good way to let off alot of steam.  I have something to vent but since this is suppose to be a site to have fun at.   I'll just say this, yes I know teachers say there are no such thing as stupid questions, they are lying.  There are, there really are.   

[Janine Dee]

Max honey... it's not just guys... one of my favorite AChat stories is my first ignore.

A guy hailed me and I started talking (as long as I'm not busy I tend to, unless I'm logging on just to check messages) and when he started showing he wanted to go to a room I tried to explain I wasn't interested. When I tried to explain to him I was gay and didn't room with men he started insisting I fuck him with my toys.

He managed to get in this long, and frankly sort of upsettingly angry message to me while I figure out how that "ignore" thing worked.

If I let guys like him determine my feelings towards AChat I would have never been able to have Lover as a friend or Sinnnn as a lover (deliberate play on words there  ).

For whatever my word is worth, it's worth it to find the diamonds.

[bobbler]

Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds.  I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here.  I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it.  Its patients babes, patients.

It takes a lot of patience to weed the diamonds from the assholes.

patience...p-a-t-i-e-n-c-e...patience

    

sorry sinnn, i couldn't resist.  had to make you smile a bit more 

[AZNLoverV]

Well I think the format could be improved.  Better chat features, common chat rooms that feature common interests would make it easier to find people to socialize with.  For example I've met a few people who are ONLY into 3somes.  Why not make a 3some room, then people interested in that activity will be in there.  Same goes for same sex rooms, opposite sex rooms, etc.  The idea is so simple why can't it be executed.  Ateam are you working on this?  That would make the game a LOT more enjoyable than just a few new poses.

[sinnnn]

I just new I spelled that wrong, LOL. Good looking out Bobby.   


oops, srry Bobby, meant to say Bob. 

[apollo13nut]

I have to say I agree with most people here: finding anything "meaningful" (in quotes cause my definition of meaningful may not match yours, screw Webster's dictionary  ) takes time and effort.

I noticed in your post  you say you are an "off again, on again" user.....I have found that logging a few hours a day, even with no results, makes finding a person you can talk to hours on end and not get bored/tired all the more sweet and savory.

I will admit, I have had several days where I'm on for 3+ hours with no conversations or invites....and there are other days where I have a 4 hour conversation within 15 min of logging on.

Hang in there man. I wish I could give you the "end all, be all" "quick fix", but I can't. Just try to have fun.