Give a new girl time to get her "hairs" done.

[Kiara_Conach]

Oke serious now, a friend told me about Achat so i went to look into it and downloaded the whole bunch when i saw its looked really nice. now  here it comes, i know you have to be logged in to get new clothes things and all that but the minute i did i got swarmed with invites, chats etcetc.. here i was trying to explain some this and getting myself to look "decent" and figuring this program out.
guys really.. if i write i like older guys. look at my age and safe yourself the trouble when youre like 20 years of age to message me. and really there is no need to get all pissed at me when i try to get on the website, get myself premium and dress up incl all the poses you supposely to have or not.
i dont want to look like the basic avatar and i might be a sub but that doesnt mean that im submissive to everything that has a cock... and hetero means NO invites from girls no matter how cute you look.
Alright now i did chat with a few nice ones too but you really expect me to talk to all at the same time ?  im not an octopus or an 8 arms creature and if so i still have only one keyboard 
soooo.. dont get all upset with me if i dont answer right away it means either im already talking with someone, could mean first days i am shopping around *grins* or the simple fact i am not behind my keboard at that moment.
Would you really want to wait for an answer when chatting for minutes ? or like to have all the attention that very moment knowing i dont try to multitaskchat with like 5 others ?


Now i got this off my chest i hope to meet a few of you soon inthere , either in chat or room ... kisses Kiara 

* not here to piss off people but hoping to have a good time so both are happy*

[bobbler]

Kiara,

Welcome to AChat.  What you are complaining about has been complained about by pretty much all of us here before you 

I was laughing while reading your post. All new people go through it...girls more so than guys with the unending cold invites and chats and wanting to talk with you the minute you log in.  There's no stopping the cold invites, people don't really pay attention to what you say in your profile, you're just going to have to pick and choose who you chat with and be polite to the others (or piss them off like someone i know  ) and concentrate on the guys you have a good time with

See...I refrained. I saw that you were a new face but I didn't jump right in and start pestering you 

Bob
ps so what are you shopping for 

[Kiara_Conach]

Im fairly sure many had the same but really it helped already to write it down hahahahaha.. at least they can't say i never said anything about it + the fact this MAYBE gives others a clue about realising this should be fun for all.
Not really helping to call me a c%& and $#%$&#$#& because i don't answer fast enough.
Glad you had a good time reading it 
oh shopping... now there are some nice things outthere on the website so i might going to spend some time trying them all out.

[bobbler]

actually i thought you might be "shopping" for something else 

[Janine Dee]

Sweetie, I'm gay and I still get the guys doing the Cold Invites, even with the profile message. As Bobbler has said, it's just part of the package here at AChat.

[Adera]

And don't be surprised if people doesn't understand that your just online to chat at times. You can look up "The rude, the crude and the downright nasty." thread if your interested in what you might encounter here.

[Lover]

Welcome Kiara Have a lot of good times and much fun!
Don't get angry, just because some idiots are around here. Just care for the nice guys

[TightFit74]

And there are many nice guys on here. The guys that wrote to this post before you, all are. Sohave fun and try to develop elephant skin for the insults and cold invites. The thread Adera suggested does give a good overview of what to expect. But above all: have fun and treat others the way you want to be treated yourself. There will be someone that is nice... 

[Antebellum]

@ Bob.....Had to laugh, while you didn't 'pester' her as a new face ...it Sure didn't take long for you to reply to her post here...  Too funny.      You know I'm just messing with ya...   

@ Kiara....Welcome  and hope you have fun 'shopping.'  With such a wide variety of people...there's something for everyone here.  Enjoy!

[JennyT]

Never log in when you first wake up.

The ignore button becomes very tempting then when you're half asleep and partly grumpy...

[bobbler]

and      to you too Ante. i was just being the nice helpful guy that i am. so what if i flirted a bit 

[sinnnn]

Oh please, nice helpful guy.  Thats like saying Satan helps lil old ladies across the street because it makes him feel good inside.      LOL

PS....

Welcome to the Fam .Kiara_Conach  and like they all says, it happens to us all.  More girls than guys.  Most ppl won't read your comments, some just don't care, just decide to pick with you because of it, and some just don't understand english very well.  So good luck.

[Urban]

A "Warm-up" or "Cool down" time could be nice.

[bobbler]

sinnnderella...you're just upset that i singled you out as the one who pi$$es off the guys 

[Kiara_Conach]

now dont get pissed .. pull a number .. found my warming up for sure     a nice cooling down animation is no where to find though 

thanks all for answering me . hahaha almost feel at home now