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Title: Saying good Bye
Post by: jcm0824 on August 26, 2013, 03:10:15 PM
Although I have truly enjoyed my time here in this wonderful village, I feel I should be moving on.
To all the wonderful friends I have made here, I thank you.
You have made laugh more than anything. I have enjoyed reading everyone's stories and post from around the village.
I have shared some intimate moments with some and heartfelt moments with just a few that I became close to.

I will be traveling through once in a while to see how every one is. May even stop and play for a while.

I have a few things to wrap up in the AB&G, but after that I will be packing my belongings up and heading out of town for a while.

Thank you to the Mods for being such great host.

I will miss my family here.

James
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Lover on August 26, 2013, 03:22:25 PM
I'm very sorry to read this James. You are a precious member of our family and it's sad to see you're leaving... You may have your reasons and I hope they are happy reasons for you.
You're always welcome,even just for a drink in the bar. And of course to let us know how you are.

I wish you all the best, a long and wonderful life and your dream coming true. Goodbye my friend.
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: hentaiboy69 on August 26, 2013, 03:34:01 PM
James, reading a friend is going to leave is always sad......but we will remember the nice moments you give us and every post you made will remain as a sign of your past presence! all i can do now, is wishing you all the best......whatever are you planning to do from now on!
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: tangoracer on August 26, 2013, 03:39:43 PM
James It sad to see your leaving use but I wish you all the best in the world in what every you are moving onto I'm sure you will have as much fun and will be welcomed as well as you have been here.

And yes please come say Hi in the Bar to let us know your OK

wishing you all the best my friend
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: mrsexlover on August 26, 2013, 09:10:18 PM
What is there to ad for me after the guys before me then, we will miss you and comeback from time to time,

I wish you the best James, you know you can always get a drink on my bill, (or use Covems one, like we all do ;) )
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Alita on August 27, 2013, 01:53:25 PM
*pouts*  no fair we just started to get to know each other james.  I'll miss you ;) hope you come back to visit
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Covems on August 28, 2013, 06:32:06 AM


Happy Trails James...  sorry to see you moving on, I enjoyed your sense of humor.  I wish you luck and success in where ever you're moving off to.  Stop by the old watering hole once in a while and as MrSexLover said... have a drink on Old Cove.



Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Marilyn on August 28, 2013, 09:38:25 AM
I never got to know you, James, but I sincerely wish you all the happiness and hope to see you here from time to time, to visit our village.
I can't say that it's sad; from what i read on your message you're not leaving with sadness, so hopefully you're reaching something great in your real life!  ;)
Won't say goodbye, but a short "bye" for now.

Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Pafe on August 29, 2013, 06:08:19 AM

Hiya...

   Good bye James... I never really got to know you either, but like the others, I wish you happiness in whatever you do.

Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on August 29, 2013, 02:58:54 PM
Hey jcm,  just read this with a heavy heart.  It's always sad to hear a valued member has decided to move on and i'm sure you have many valid reasons for doing so...  of course I will do my best to talk you in to staying ... including the story you promised me  ;D

I wont say good bye to you, just au revoir ... and hope you change your mind  :-*

Big hug, big kiss.   :-*
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Stone on September 27, 2013, 09:32:26 AM
Good Luck.  But I hope you change your mind too. 

Take care and I hope all works out for you.
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: freddie on September 29, 2013, 03:28:56 PM
hi James
So sorry for all us : we will miss you a lot
And we still have to do that party group lol
I wish you all the best
We ll keep your drums here waiting for you
:)
See ya friend
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: mrsexlover on October 17, 2013, 09:11:20 PM
Welcome back James,

We are glad to see you back in our little town, (wich means we don't have to find a new drummer for the 'Cocks & Roses'  ;D )

If you need a place to stay, the appartment behind my bannerstore is empty, you can use that, it's furnished and the rent is cheap. Just let me know when you got in there so i don't stumble up on you doing things with our lovely girls there. (or do let me know, when she wants more then one man to satisfy her ;) )
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on October 18, 2013, 12:24:21 AM
Yehaw   Good to hear you and your steel horse are  cumming back home ..

Your drinks waiting in the AB&G    ;D  ;D  ;D
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: hentaiboy69 on October 18, 2013, 01:02:11 AM
Great news, James! you are just in time to join for the annual Halloween party at the Bar & Grill!
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Lover on October 18, 2013, 02:04:59 AM
When you said good bye I had one sad and one happy eye. Now it's the same... I'm sorry things didn't work for you as you wished but I also am happy you're back in town.
Let's meet in bar, have a few drinks and then we're gonna rock this town again!

Welcome back my friend
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Marilyn on October 18, 2013, 02:15:27 AM
Welcome back, James.  :)
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: sexilicious on October 18, 2013, 05:51:14 AM
welcome back James. You can always bunk with me till you get settled ;)
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: tangoracer on October 18, 2013, 07:08:52 AM
Welcome back James good to see back First drink in the Bar is on me

Keep it under the speed limit don't want you running into any NSPD on your way back to town
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Alita on February 01, 2014, 03:36:15 PM
welcome back ;)   hope to run into you sometime soon
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Lydiarose on February 02, 2014, 03:56:07 AM
Welcome back james
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on July 05, 2014, 04:07:02 AM
Extracts from the AB&G -   


James (jcm0824) smiles at Blue and Dirish. He is unable to resist slapping Blue’s delightful derrier as she passes by him winking and dangling the spare key to The Dungeon in The Ice House.
“Happy birthday Blue, Have fun,” he murmurs softly and Blue giggles, knowing she will.

Dirish highs fives his good friend and follows Blue.  “Glad you told me about this place my friend,” Dirish wiggles his eyebrows playfully at James and his two lady friends.
James chuckles, glad that he did too. He whispers to the two beautiful women at his side, Snowbunny78 and Sexilicious and asks them both if they would like a little privacy of their own.

The two ladies agree and eagerly take his strong hands, walking with him to the Spa room.

*****
James feels happy that he has good friends here and looks around at the bar as he walks. He feels the warmth and affection all around him.

It seems to glow in the room, a faint glow that begins to get brighter. Somehow he knows it is a good light and his eyes travel the room and he sees the hue is brighter where his friends are.

“Beautiful, isn’t it?”  Doris says softly, standing beside him.  Suddenly he realises all the people in the bar were frozen in time. Some in animated discussion, some dancing and laughing.
Even Snowbunny and Sexilicious are statuesque still holding his hand.

“What am I seeing?” James asks slightly bewildered.
“All the love and friendship you created since you have been here.” Doris whispers to him. “It glows and strengthens and the bonds you have with people are never broken. They last through time."

“Am I dreaming? It seems so serene and beautiful” James whispers and memorises the scenes before him.  All his friends including Cheya, Bluedenim, Dirish, Sexilicious and Snowbunny laughing, smiling and glowing the brightest for him.

All have bright eyes, and almost a teardrop shimmering and forming in them.
He looks closest at them. “They seem different from the rest.”

Doris smiles at him, “That’s because, they sense it.”

James looks at her, seeing her properly for the first time.  “You are the lady in the portrait, dancing over the stage with your man”
Doris nods. “My Stanley. We live here, have done for over a 100 years”

James swallows, “My illness beat me in the end, didn’t it? That’s what you mean by sensing it. My friends know, I have to leave them”
Doris nods again. “They know. They don’t want you to suffer anymore,” she says softly.

James smiles, “I was getting tired. I think I put up a good fight though”
Stanley floats down to stand by Doris, putting his arm around her waist, “You sure did”
James chuckles, feeling good, happy and full of life ironically, the best he has done in ages. “What happens now?”

Doris answers him softly guiding him, “You whisper to your friends, each memory of you, you wish them to remember and keep, you  say good bye to each and every one, promising each, that you will live in their hearts forever. You may be gone. You won’t ever be forgotten.”

“I’m not sure, I want to go yet,” James whispers to them.

“That’s normal.” Stanley soothes him, “It’s just that first step into the unknown. A new chapter for you”
“That’s why we are here,” Doris says, “There are people waiting for you in the next plane, but you can take your time with your friends. Time means little here.”

“Should I be scared?” James asks not sure of his feelings.
Doris shakes her head. “No, don’t be scared. There is a fabulous set of drums up there, some golden ropes and things that you enjoyed here,” she chuckles. “We have some very thoughtful Angels who know how to make new comers feel right at home”

James chuckles, “Should I blush?”
“Absolutely!”  Doris and Stanley say in unison and they all burst out laughing. 

James suddenly feels better, wonderful even. He knows his time has come and he knows that he has had a good, full filling life. Slowly it flashes before him and Doris and Stanley hold him steady as he sees and remembers.
When it’s over, James is smiling.  “My life was wonderful”

Stanley and Doris nod in agreement. “You are a very special man. You will be greatly missed”

Doris takes his hand, “Come, whisper in your friends ears the special memory you wish them to have, we will wait for you over here”

James approaches each of his friends,  each of his band members in the Cocks N Roses and each of his special ladies.
He whispers things only for them and notes the glow brightens around them.

The moments are special, unique and ones that imprint in their minds and souls forever.

“Good bye, my friends,” he tells them at the end, “Don’t be sad at my passing. Be glad we had the good fortune to meet each other, to spend time together and to make wonderful memories together”

He kisses each lady and shakes each man’s hand.

He turns to his new friends, Doris and Stanley, “I am ready”

Then as if on queue, a giant stairway appears in the centre of the AB&G with the glow of his friends in the afterlife at the top.

And with Doris and Stanley by his side, he ascends with a sense of peace, of happiness and of joy.

“Do you think, I could come back to visit the Spa and bar on occasions?” James jokes with the ghostly couple.

Laughter is heard and Doris’s answer, “Oh, we insist”

The AB&G returns to normal time,  James has passed but never forgotten. His imprint on the AB&G and The Icehouse will be there forever, in its history.

His friends sense and feel his spirit and raise their glasses in toast to the special man who was part of their lives.
“To James – jcm0824- and the wonderful memories, he created. Rest in Peace Dear Friend.”

And the drums on stage suddenly beat and play on their own….


Gun's N' Roses - Knockin On Heavens Door     -      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tmc8rJgxUI&feature=kp

(http://s20.postimg.org/qci8g998t/8788656422_99c2574b25.jpg)


In memory of our jcm0824.  A much respected and loved member of our Forum Village.


Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on July 05, 2014, 04:09:03 AM
tho I never met you  I heard only good things about you.

let this poem ease the hearts of those that did know and love you James.


RIP James,




GRIEVE NOT
(Ode: Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood, 175-186)

What though the radiance which was once so bright
Be now for ever taken from my sight,
Though nothing can bring back the hour
Of splendour in the grass, of glory in the flower;
We will grieve not, rather find
Strength in what remains behind;
In the primal sympathy
Which having been must ever be;
In the soothing thoughts that spring
Out of human suffering;
In the faith that looks through death,
In years that bring the philosophic mind.

~ William Wordsworth





maybe we will meet  in time :)
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on July 05, 2014, 04:10:27 AM
Rest In Peace  James

we will all miss you
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on July 05, 2014, 04:11:41 AM
Standing in the game room i watch as Stone puts up our tribute to our departed friend. a large glass frame with pictures of JCM at Bar parties and concerts. At the bottom are  a pair of his drum sticks and one of his brass belt buckles with his family crest engraved on it. we decide to place it here, near the entrance to the ice house because thats where we could always find him
.
 I smile at the thought as  Stone tells me to" moved it up, move it down, to the right a little"

Finally satisfied  we shut off the lights  and lock up the bar for the night. we drive off  to the lake on this  lovely summer evening.

BACK AT THE BAR

All is quiet save for the hum of the beer coolers, when suddenly the  sound system comes to life. 

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zC9okWm8A6o

RIP James   You will be missed

 
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Brandybee on July 05, 2014, 04:13:42 AM
(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uKpavdFNCsE/UI_DU1LJSPI/AAAAAAAAIqY/0j3znugJj5c/s1600/Clan%2BMacLeod%2Bof%2BMacleod%2BCrest%2BBadge%2BWall%2BPlaque%2B-%2BWFR.jpg)
 

James

(http://s20.postimg.org/5aamiu7ot/8920350905_60b8e6806a_o.jpg)

jcm0814 -   Hero Forum Member -  23 February 2013 to 28 June 2014.

“Left,  right,  down a bit,  no up a bit.  That’s it  Jay.  It’s perfect there.”  I stand back looking at it with tears in my eyes as Jayc hammers the tribute in place over The Ice House door.

“Do you think, he would like that Jay?”

“I think he would. He think he would feel honoured we care so much about him”  Jayc jumps down off the chair and hugs me, passing me a handkerchief

“You know tomorrow, I think we should look around his gallery. He has beautiful sexy photographs he has displayed”

“Good idea”  Jayc answers me.


Just Sexy Photos  -   http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2503.0.html

Scenes from our private dungeons  -  http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2628.0.html

We drink a toast to our friend, leave a whiskey on the bar counter for him and lock up for the night, and remember  him …

Me


(http://24.media.tumblr.com/3c5510908a427960898cb5d06c2664cc/tumblr_n488xcYKvd1su2vg6o1_500.jpg)

(http://24.media.tumblr.com/309e107c15506613833e1a00dfe33bf7/tumblr_mzwupzjIBF1sl6cl9o1_500.jpg)

The protector

(http://24.media.tumblr.com/71d7e4fd41c40d0a76026d597332110c/tumblr_n5jh7mhvsA1skk0t3o1_500.jpg)


And the song in the bar echoes  round the empty room of the Achat Bar & Grill  as James plays beloved his drums ...

Sandy Nelson - Let There Be Drums  -    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zC9okWm8A6o

RIP James   You will be missed




Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on July 05, 2014, 09:04:04 AM
James
 I never got to meet  you but I hear great things about you, and think
you are a wonderful. You touched so many people's heart in your precious life.
Life is so short  in the time we have on earth , We don't know  how much time we all have here but I am sure you
lived it well met many friends  touched many hearts and loved many and they loved you back , My heart go"s  to them
 for they will miss you and feel the lose of a good friend but have beautiful memories till you meet  again .

My faith has taught me that death is to be celebrated for the beginning of  eternal life.
A life of Joy, Peace, Love and Happiness  I know how you feel  to be Surrounded By the Light
feeling all the Love of our Lord  ( no more hurt or pain there )  and it makes me smile for I know you know that pure  Love that so many search for this is there in heaven
eternal life with pure love. GOD Bless you soul and all you friends that will miss you .

RIP James

You will be missed
 I will meet you up there one day, the best place to meet .  


(http://i93.photobucket.com/albums/l53/mpaulson17/Psalm23.jpg)
Title: Re: The Achat Bar & Grill . ( AB&G )
Post by: Dirish on July 05, 2014, 10:06:26 AM
R.I.P. my dear friend. I miss you horribly.

James' ashes were released to the wind in a memorial ride of motorcycles on July 4th through the beautiful mountains of West Virgina where he was raised.

 :'(
Dave
Title: Re: The Achat Bar & Grill . ( AB&G )
Post by: bluedenim on July 05, 2014, 10:46:00 AM
Thank you Dave.

I hope his motorbike can be ridden wherever he wants now.





In memory -   Halloween & Pirates  by Bluedenim  http://www.literotica.com/s/halloween-and-pirates
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Lover on July 06, 2014, 02:04:49 PM
James,
you started your final trip. Going to a place where you find peace. It's hard to let you go but you deserve it. No pain anymore, the fight is over. I know youre looking at us, watching us and then and when you will let us feel youre there. Your body may be gone but youre in the hearts of all of us.
Im proud i was allowed to know you. Im happy we did some great concerts together. Im sure youre already looking for another place to play your drums. One day we will perform together again. You will know its me, when somebody is Knocking On Heavens Door

RIP James
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Cheya on July 06, 2014, 03:31:12 PM
R.I.P James


You've been a great and very dear friend to me, i always enjoyed our chats, the flirty and genuine one's, shall you shape your paddles in a better place now and spank em heavenly until we meet again in another life, i shall miss you a lot :-*.

Kisses
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: SnowBunny78 on July 07, 2014, 02:04:41 AM
James, It is so so hard to believe you are gone. I have looked over all our messages from yahoo, to our emails, to message that we shared here. I am so sad. Not once while you helped me deal with my dad's death last year did it ever once cross my mind you would not be here now.  I have cried so many tears  :'( .  I never had to meet you face to face, even though when my dad died you did offer to drive down to Va to be here with me through it all, but I never had to meet you face to face to know I loved who you was. You was a sweet and very caring person. We talked about anything and everything under the sun, at times we even said it felt as if we had known each other for years and years. The true facts we only got to know each other for about a year and half before God called you home.  :'(  We always talked that it was to bad you didn't get to meet my dad before he passed. But, here we are and now you get to meet him on those restful shores. I am going to miss our chats, and you telling me how your sisters act as if they were your mom. Or how your remodeling project was going on inside your house. I guess I won't get to see that finish project after all :(  I am going to miss you so very much I cannot put it into words. My heart is heavy. But do me a favor James, after you run into your dad up there, find my dad and let him know how much I miss him and love him. And until you and I meet upon those restful shores James, I pray that you R.I.P.  I am gonna miss you. I love ya sweetheart

xoxoxoxo
SnowBunny78 aka Jamie  :-*
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: hentaiboy69 on July 07, 2014, 03:14:10 AM
The good guys are always he first who left us.....i don't know James very well, but i know he made lot of friends here and he was always nice in his posts. We all gonna miss yo, my frend......and whenever you are, i know you are watching us!

RIP James
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: hukk on July 17, 2014, 04:42:49 PM
Here's to you James. Wherever you may be, hope you enjoy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHcunREYzNY
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: SnowBunny78 on July 24, 2014, 09:47:40 PM
:'( :'(  I haven't been back much to the forums. I come here and still can't believe James is gone, and my message box is not lit up stating I have a message. It is just so different with out him, And I still cry thinking about it. I know some of you may think that is crazy, but I had came to know James pretty good, and considered him a really good close friend. He was my sweetheart, and I dearly miss his presence here. Sorry James, I can't help it , when you cross my mind my heart hurts and tears start to flow out of my eyes. I sincerely miss you. But I know you are no longer in pain, and I am sure you are having a hell of a time on those streets of gold :)  WE ALL MISS YOU DEARLY!!! xoxoxo
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Stone on August 16, 2014, 09:18:39 PM
Sometimes there is no words,  just the offer of a hug.

(http://www.lovethispic.com/uploaded_images/48898-Everybody-Needs-A-Hug.jpg)
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: ItsAmy123 on March 19, 2015, 07:10:44 PM

I was going through some old posts today and I literally felt like a key to a lost box in my memory had been found, as I thought back to the first time I ventured onto here (trailing after a guy of course, as per usual Amy behaviour tsk tsk) and remembered how involved and active James was in the forum. He had maintained a certain livelihood throughout the forum and was actually the person behind many of the successful threads today, such as the Sexy Photos one and the Dungeon/BDSM one as well.

I considered him a friend, as I'm sure he considered me one as well. We chatted often, especially during my beginnings here. I do at times feel guilty though for not managing to successfully continue that consistency of chatting with him, as I had gotten involved in a relationship here and I guess, totally immersed myself in that. I have bad habit of doing so and ignoring friends when getting into a new relationship, which I am trying to get rid of. But having said all that, I'm glad he never held that against me and we always spoke on sweet, polite, cordial terms. I'll always remember that one birthday of mine in 2013, when he made me feel uber special by posting about it and messaging me with a bunch of personalized pictures dedicated to me.

I was on hiatus from the forum when I heard of James' passing, and I simply couldn't believe it. Figured it was due time to finally pay my respects.

So, dear James, hears to you *Raises glass* :-* I hope you can forgive me for any short comings of mine in regards to negligence and failing to keep up with our friendship & I hope you're smiling down at me from above, while reading this. You'll always have a special place in my heart. Mwah xx
Title: Re: Saying good Bye
Post by: Marniejo on January 08, 2017, 01:12:25 AM
As I scroll thru tonight I came across this post again.  I cry every time I read this, I had not been on forum for so long and didn't know about your leaving James.  It broke my heart when I heard the news.  I laugh remembering a story of you and your nieces and a fight with spaghetti. stories of your remodeling and your back hurting. I used to check my email every morning for a continuation of our office romance.  I loved you for the amazing person you were, I lost most of the pictures you sent me because I didn't save them correctly, and that hurts my heart still.  I know your life is better now, I hope you are looking down on us and smiling, knowing you are still remembered and still loved.  Ride my friend, with wings of eagles and fly............