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Discussions about sex => Fantasies and Fetishes => Topic started by: Daveoh on June 21, 2013, 03:02:24 AM

Title: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on June 21, 2013, 03:02:24 AM: dont know if this is a new one but its new to me but i just got a hit up by someone begging me for money because there credit card was denied :( i suppose i have to put on my profile i dont give money at all Its just sad and a little annoying...
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on June 21, 2013, 03:29:48 AM: Even if you write you don't give money you will get enough requests :D There are many beggers around for different reasons but in the end they just want A$. Don't care for them.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Covems on June 21, 2013, 04:50:42 AM: I beg all the time

(http://www.grabcart.com/pics/apparel/drbet/bewild-wiwoforbesexxt.jpg)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Brandybee on June 21, 2013, 05:50:10 AM: Daveoh, Welcome to the annoying part of Achat ..

Just say No & use your ignore button - Simples. Dont get sucked in by the sob stories - some are quite ingenious at it.

Cove, I have seen your sexy smile and new hat ... think you are on a winner at " pl.... " you dont even need the " ease" bit ;D
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on June 21, 2013, 03:26:16 PM: That's exactly what I did the fastest ignore in history. It just strikes me funny that the only request for chat I get are from beggars, just like my real life dating experiences ;D kinda scary
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on June 21, 2013, 03:35:37 PM: We have an own topic, collecting stupid chats :D

Discussions about sex > Everything about sex and love > The Worst Pick Up lines EVER
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,581.msg52560.html

We don't post all the beggars.. the topic would flood the server...lol
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on June 21, 2013, 06:11:20 PM: ahh Covems i do it the other way round still dont work :(

Quote from: Covems on June 21, 2013, 04:50:42 AM

I beg all the time

(http://www.grabcart.com/pics/apparel/drbet/bewild-wiwoforbesexxt.jpg)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 06, 2013, 01:55:46 AM: For my experience here, dont ask persons to gift you, or they asked you for money , thats not nice, altought its A$ , it was real money.

In my experience here, i only begged 1 time a gift, in my first week of Achat, but i stopepd, i dont think its nice, so.....

Be yourself, polite to persons , and not for interests .

I promisse you , if they love your personality and you treat them right as well, they will gift you , when they can, without you ask.

Im premium almost a year more or less i think,and never bought premium here,everything i am here, its gifts! And i aprecciate them of course.

I know men here ,they almost gift me every other week,without i ask them, altough i apreciate of course!,and the same men,talk to me always complaining bout women asking for gifts and they dont gift them, so you see !

Remember...behind an avatar...theres a real person,be yourself like in real life. ;)

If you re nice to people, without interests , good things come in your way!!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: A123lolo on July 06, 2013, 03:34:30 AM: I'm agree with that.

I don't like women who ask gift in start (before to say "hi" in some case)
And may be some women like the sensation to be a prostitute, but I don't like that.
I don't want to pay for sex, because I like to have a voluntary partner.
And for women who sold their picture, I stop that: every pics that i buy were fake pics (I found them in internet after)
Don't forget that AChat is virtual world: everything is illusion

In the other hand, some time, I like to be pleasure to my friends to gift them a small present.
It is free, no to compensate a sexual show.
It's just a friendly relationship.
And it's nice :)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Nat33 on July 06, 2013, 04:29:50 AM: Agree 100% with lolo.
I never ask gifts, sometimes some friends/lovers send me gifts, of course it's a pleasure like all gifts in life.
On my page in the game I've writed " Don't need GIFTS, I need COCKS" that's all 8)

I've all the poses of the game, a lot of clothes and one year premium suscription.
Now I'm waiting for new poses :)

Why Men don't ask Gifts for fuck? because we can't send Gifts to a man :(
Women, Tgirls, men don't send Gifts to men in real life? strange no ?

And if Men ask gifts for fuck too ? hum ;D
I say it's another game...
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Rukya on July 06, 2013, 05:30:16 PM: Hmmm i'm in achat since 2 years soon , and in two years i got only 1 gift of 300 or 400 (dont remember the amount) ....

Hmmm , if i follow what patricia said , it seem peoples dont like me ;D
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 02:59:11 AM: Yesterday, i know a guy, who hates,women asking him for gifts.

Yesterday he gift me A$1500 , without i ask him
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: hentaiboy69 on July 07, 2013, 04:19:41 AM: that's cause you never ask but he find you a good friend and a nice woman.......sometimes it happend to find good people!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 04:41:38 AM: Thank you Hentay :-*
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: A123lolo on July 07, 2013, 05:14:51 AM: There are a big difference, Rukya: your friends are poor and Patricia's friends are rich :D
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 05:43:17 AM: Ive known many men, who say , that first time a woman ,talks to them, first think they do , hes ask a man , to gift.

So , im not like that, and i never ask to gift me, thats problably they like me, and gift me , altough i never asked them!!

3 months a go, a guy gift me A$8000 , and i said to him you dont have to do that,altough i appreciate,so he said , with you, i love to do that.

Many men complain to me, that normally, first thing a woman say , is if they could gift.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: hentaiboy69 on July 07, 2013, 05:55:30 AM: Quote from: Rukya on July 06, 2013, 05:30:16 PM
Hmmm i'm in achat since 2 years soon , and in two years i got only 1 gift of 300 or 400 (dont remember the amount) ....

Hmmm , if i follow what patricia said , it seem peoples dont like me ;D

Quote from: A123lolo on July 07, 2013, 05:14:51 AM
There are a big difference, Rukya: your friends are poor and Patricia's friends are rich :D

that can be a reason, lolo......but...maybe the friends of Rukya are scared by her paddle not by her.....

oh my gosh.....Paddle Queen + a certain redhead i know + paddle...........get ready for a surprise soon, you all! ::) ::) ;D
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Momma_andrea on July 07, 2013, 07:41:59 AM: The first time I got gifted was from a friend. And I felt cheap. I didn't like it. Momma Andrea has her own money.
But he said, its a gift. Go buy something nice. something pretty.
That's why gifting should be things, or at least give that option.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 08:31:04 AM: In matter of gifts, i think they could put 2 options:

A$ Gifts

OR Or the 2 combined!

Shop Gifts

I dont think they ll need anymore options, this 2, are enough.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: A123lolo on July 07, 2013, 10:34:47 AM: Yes, it is better to gift a clothe to a friend that some money
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on July 07, 2013, 05:52:10 PM: i think it should be shop gift only, if you want pre then pay for it like the rest of us
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 06:26:05 PM: Thats Selfish of you, and what about countrys like mine Portugal, where achat doesnt have sistem, for us to pay??

All iam , are thanks to gifts ,cause residents in portugal dont have Achat payment sistem!!

So id stay free user forever????????????????????????????

Whats the fun in that?

the 2 systems togheter working , in game are the best Solution.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 07, 2013, 06:27:13 PM: For someone new here, you re very arrogant! :-\

PLEASE THINK BEFORE TALKING ;)

The Achat has to work for all users, not just for yourself !!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on July 07, 2013, 08:45:24 PM: well im sorry you cant get achat in your country it is not arrogant to express the way you feel that is what the forum is about I was not rude to you so please don't be rude to others that have a different opinion to you...
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: A123lolo on July 08, 2013, 12:07:36 AM: Patricia, I'm agree with you.
I think it's better to have 2 systems of gift: one with the shop, the other with money.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Brandybee on July 08, 2013, 04:02:54 AM: It's always good to have a healthy discussion on certain aspects of the game. It's how new ideas for the game are born and things are improved.

We do need the gifting system to encourage and attract women to the game, there are a lot more guys than woman and it has been proved that it does work. Many woman would not be here, as premiums , if it was not for the gifting system.

Unfortunately, like in life, you will find some play for the enjoyment of the game and gifts are appreciated for what they are, and others demand gifts and play as prostitutes.
The guys choose who they gift, it is there choice and not an obligation. The very fact that prostitution is thriving here, shows there is a market there and guys are paying these girls.
Maybe it's the seedy kind of sex, they enjoy, or maybe it's the fact that they are socially inept to attract girls to play who are not interested in gifts so much. Either way , Both kinds of play will thrive in the game. And both ways will continue to do so as it makes money for the Achat Gods.

Certain countries ban sex games , or do not have compatible payment systems to allow members to become premium members either, The girls have the advantage to be able to use the gifting system to advance their play, the guys are not so fortunate and is one of the main reasons, I do not personally use the busy button for free users.

I doubt Achat Gods will ever change this, guys will always pay for sex. If guys are allowed to receive gifts, the prostitution would explode, pimps would become the norm, and guys would swap money between accounts. It would completely change the way the game is now.This would effect Achats income and far out weigh the girls who would gift guys to show appreciation. It is highly unlikely that gifting guys will ever change.

The only problem, I can see, with gifting items from the shop is if the girl has the item already. At least A$ allows the girl to buy something she has always wanted.

The gifting system may not be ideal, but it is viable and it does work.

I just hope that the achat Gods are able to give more options of payment so people who wish to become premium are able to do so.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 08, 2013, 12:00:54 PM: Quote from: A123lolo on July 08, 2013, 12:07:36 AM
Patricia, I'm agree with you.
I think it's better to have 2 systems of gift: one with the shop, the other with money.

ITS THE BEST WAY - End of discussion :)

I THINK !!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 08, 2013, 12:02:17 PM: Quote from: Daveoh on July 07, 2013, 05:52:10 PM
i think it should be shop gift only, if you want pre then pay for it like the rest of us

Daveoh, if i ofend you in anyway, im humble , to say sorry ;)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Patricia1975 on July 08, 2013, 12:05:06 PM: For the record , i dont beg for A$ , just in first 2 days, i had ,in achat, when i was starting to know achat,and what it is.
Most men i know in game, love to gift me,
I NEVER ASK THEM!!
They gift me for appreciation of our friendship.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: xShezawolfx on July 15, 2013, 06:55:00 AM: Far as begging for A$ you few who beg always makes it real hard on women like me who pay their own way plus I feel Men should be able to receive gifts also,turnabout is fair play
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on July 15, 2013, 07:09:40 AM: Don't be upset Sheza - AChat is like real life. Some girls are begging for A$, some men are assholes too. But the majority is nice and able to differ between bad and nice ones.

Regarding men being able to be gifted, we have talked a lot. But A-Team doesn't want it and probably won't change it.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: xShezawolfx on July 15, 2013, 05:46:05 PM: Personally I find it unfair that a man cant be gifted for being a Gentleman yet women run around begging, like street beggers because its step up that if you have a good line you can stay here for free.just maybe I was raised right if you cant pay your own way, you shouldn't play,mybe achat should reconsider about gifting men turn abouts fair play correct? wonder how women will take the continual begging for what they want from men?
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on July 16, 2013, 02:10:34 AM: We have a thread including a poll here (though the poll is closed meanwhile).
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2267.0.html

You can see all ideas and suggestions we made, some pros and cons... perhaps you want to add your thoughts there too.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Covems on July 16, 2013, 04:47:56 AM: I think, what AChat doesn't want is some dude creating a female avatar, collecting A$ and gifting those A$ to his Male account. It doesn't make good business sense to allow that.

A suggestion that I have is to have a seperate category in the shop... for just gifts. It could be something to place in the rooms, i.e. a bottle of Malort, or different flowers. Or special clothing, matching shirts or something... and allow both Male and Females to be gifted from that section.

Quote from: xShezawolfx on July 15, 2013, 06:55:00 AM
Far as begging for A$ you few who beg always makes it real hard on women like me who pay their own way

Don't be disheartened Shezawolf, I think it makes women like you more special. When I first started, I gifted a few times to room with a couple of women (loneliness and a desire). The last time I did that, it wasn't a good experience, then it dawned on me that it wasn't me they were interested in, it was my A$ that they wanted. Then I met the two crazy ladies, and discovered the charms of Robot Girl... but that's a story for a different time... Since then, I have gifted ladies, but not for rooming, but because I wanted to.

Since I'm at it:
My favorite Beggars are the ones who are asking for A$ to help pay their premium, and in their tag line they have "Owned by .........." or "............ is my master" WTF!!! HAVE THEM HELP YOU!! I'm not a Dom or an owner, but if I were, I would definitely help my Sub or Slave (or whateverthehellya call them) when they needed it. Otherwise, I'd just be a user.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on July 19, 2013, 02:15:10 AM: ok here is a new one for me
Just fond a girl asking for 1 or 2 real dollars to be sent to pay-pal for sex and pics. Thats going a bit too far
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on July 19, 2013, 02:20:22 AM: Oh we reached a new dimension. Though it was just a question of time.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Daveoh on July 19, 2013, 02:42:03 AM: yep.. didn't know if it was legal or not wouldn't want pay pal coming down on achat because of it
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on July 19, 2013, 02:48:40 AM: It has nothing in common with AChat. If you use paypal to pay a girl, it's private between you both. I don't think I have to tell you shouldn't do it, as you also give private details (email etc)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: hentaiboy69 on July 19, 2013, 02:59:46 AM: Quote from: Daveoh on July 19, 2013, 02:15:10 AM
ok here is a new one for me
Just fond a girl asking for 1 or 2 real dollars to be sent to pay-pal for sex and pics. Thats going a bit too far

Geez......this is really stunning! not asking A$ but real money!? hope you put her on gnore and report her!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: xShezawolfx on July 19, 2013, 11:38:04 AM: Paypal huh wonder what she would of put as type of payment???
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: kittenlepurr on July 27, 2013, 05:43:26 PM: I said it before .. I'll say it again ... and probably more besides.

1. I do not beg for $A
2. I dont ask for them to play with someone
3. Asking if I will take $A is always insulting no matter how innocent the other person thinks the question is.
4. Asking for $A in my opinion undercuts the fun of Achat
5. If people cant pay their own way there is seriously something wrong with them.
6. Those that ask for $A should be immediately blocked by all truly thinking people.

Got a little angry as I was writing that. :p
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Lover on July 27, 2013, 05:50:43 PM: Awwwww calm down kitten, none of us is responsible for idiots in game. All we can do is being different and hoping many read this and NEVER pay anything, but gifts they love to give.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Momma_andrea on July 27, 2013, 05:58:26 PM: Quote from: kittenlepurr on July 27, 2013, 05:43:26 PM
I said it before .. I'll say it again ... and probably more besides.

3. Asking if I will take $A is always insulting no matter how innocent the other person thinks the question is.

Got a little angry as I was writing that. :p

This ^^
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Sara91 on March 01, 2014, 11:21:46 AM: I have had a couple guys offer me A$ to go in a room with them....it made me feel insulted, objectified and dirty. I love sex, maybe I'm a little bit of a nymphomaniac, but I'm not a n object that can just be bought, used and discarded when a man is finished with it....sorry for reviving an old topic, I just felt the need to chime in for some reason... :)

As for receiving a gift, well, I wouldn't say no if a guy I liked and had a good relationship with wanted to spoil me a little bit, but it most defiantly isn't a requirement.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: lolitazara on March 14, 2014, 04:07:18 PM: I would never ask for A$ I give it for free, taking payments would make me kind of like a prostitute. It demeans the girls who ask for it. Stupid idea.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Abraxis on April 30, 2014, 06:51:15 PM: I never give a gift for no reason. If a girl I have spoken to and spent some time with takes the time to show me that I am appreciated, and this does not necessarily mean sex, because this on its own is never enough, and never should be. And she has shown a continued interest in getting to know me and being with me for who I am, then I will have no problem with giving her a gift. The best thing to remember I think is treat others as you would wish to be treated. Gifts, sex and whatever else are at their best and highest value when they are given naturally. :)
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on April 30, 2014, 07:06:07 PM: Quote from: A123lolo on July 08, 2013, 12:07:36 AM
Patricia, I'm agree with you.
I think it's better to have 2 systems of gift: one with the shop, the other with money.

I agree with lolo and Patricia it is best to have two systems of giving
as for begging all you can do is say no and ignore no reason to get all worked up over it.

When you give a gift give from the heart or don't gift at all.

and men should be given gifts to!

I want to give my guy to :(
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: CeCe on February 12, 2017, 06:30:37 PM: Personally I don't beg, if someone gives me some A$ then that's extremely kind of them and hopefully I can return the favour sometime. Some guys/women/transgenders will give me some for fucking me anyway. It's up to the person whether they gift me or not!
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: Anatasia97 on February 13, 2017, 11:08:52 AM: I have never gifted for sex, but I am a believer in random acts of kindness, and have given gifts with no expectation of anything in return.
Title: Re: Begging for A$
Post by: lightsenshi on February 13, 2017, 12:50:03 PM: I've already shared my thoughts for the subject. See the thread below. :)

http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,4591.0.html