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Discussions about sex => Woman with man in AChat => Topic started by: Bear on January 02, 2011, 02:45:28 PM
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(http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/news-about-achat-sex-game/fisting-for-nasty-achat-sexgame-players.jpg)
So tell us about it, the options...your opinions...Likes...Dislikes
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taking over for lover i see ;)
well...it's definitely a very different position & one i'd consider buying
let's hear some reviews guys...and girls too
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I'd like to see this for FS and FF aswell, but maybe sitting on the side somehow so one could play and maybe kiss the girl at the same time.
Anyway, its seems like a really hot pose could be fun for me too... but in my ass. If it was in rl though it would have to be a smaller female fist or it would hurt alot.
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or something else ;)
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I see ya nasty ppl got ya fisting. Hooray so is it worth it?
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On the FF front I am already saying OWWWW!!!
Definitely one of those positions where I would rather give then receive.
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Debating myself wether I should buy it or not. Maybe if one of my partners requested it. I have no idea how this is for a woman or why should would want that. Anyone here that can enlighten me? I see there are no reviews yet. I'll let you know if I decide to buy and use it.
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@ Bobbler: It's allowed to do it ;)
Usually not what I like to do; I have to think about before I'm gonna buy it.
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Not to step on toes Lover,..just way too much time on my hands of late ::) Wanted to try setting up a poll...now done...it's all back to you bud. ;D
Bought the pose :-\,...and could only make a quick Robot tour so from the male side...
Pleasure face,...3 other assorted faces...
Options:
Jerk off
Fondle Ass (self)
finger her asshole
breast play
hold her leg...actually slightly erotic IMO
strong fisting....(closest I have seen to a restrained position in a while...(other than forced Doggy)
type of pose that is,...well best described "extreme" :o...not for everyone. Have it, but will I use it?...that depends on the partner ::)...
(Will update with the female side. when I get a chance to check it out with a "live" body ;))
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i know lover...just giving bear a hard time ;)
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Tried it with a lover, and have to say I am still ambivalent about it. Still not certain if I should buy it. It is extreme and I am sure there will be boys and girls that love it. Girls have a few options as well: chasing, playing with breasts, playing with clit, (not sure if they can spread or lift legs...), hold the guys arm and guide his efforts. Maybe more but not remembering after a too short night...
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@bobbycakes
shouldn't you be giving others a "hard time" :P
But if I do decide to go prem, I not sure if I would buy this. If I did, I soooo will not be on the receiving end. :P
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I would like to be on the receiving end if there where other things than fisting too, a fist is too large.
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Okay, the consensus seems to be OW!
Credit to the Development Team though for implementing a very non-vanilla sex practice.
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i have...and i do ;D sinnnderella
i thought you did just go premium again?
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This pose is great, but i would like to see anal fisting as welll]
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anal fisting?!? damn! you're pretty hard core aren't you ;)
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At anal fisting I believe you go beyond ow to sentences like "Kill me, just kill me now."
Luckily avatars can't tear.
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Uh... I'm fine with regular cocks in my ass, tearing isn't fun.
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OMG I saw this pic with a guy having his foot up another guys ass.
Now that is going being OW and time for 911. For the life of me, I couldn't tear my eyes away from the pic, wanted to but I was like "How the HELL did he get that in there? Its this fake, somekind of elaborate trick?"
There is kink, fetishes and then there is DAMN YOU JUST HAVE TO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS. :P
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You saw what??? :o
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The big difference between anal and vaginal fisting (and footing I guess) is that the vaginal canal has elasticity for birthing. The rectal has none. It still can be trained because it IS a muscle, but the potential for tearing is awful as is things like prolapse.
It's knowledge like that which keeps me from ever being able to relax enough to try enjoying anal.
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Well practice helps... I'm not worried about prolapse. :P
But a foot inside the ass! Shit! :o
Though I've stumbled across stuff like that... 2 girls 1 cup made me abit sick. That guy who got fucked by a horse... uh... I cringe thinking about it... apparently he died after it.
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sitting tighter to the chair with that image :o
Definitely out there, way out there in the course of practice.
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I heard bout that horse/guy, thought that was like urban legend.
Whats up with the ppl and bottles. All I can think bout is if that glass breaks. Or the baseball bat. (shudders in horror) :-\ :-X :-[ :'(
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Well just reading an article on a woman arrested for sexually abusing her dogs,...okie dokie.
Only legend I remember involving horses was that Catherine the Great died when the harnesses restraining the horse she pleased herself on, broke,..crushing her.
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Hummm no way :x
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K totally have to play the devils advocate here.
Sexually abusing her dogs. So dogs can get raped now. Well can I have the dogs that jumped up on my legs arrested for sexually harrassing me? Really I was traumatized. It was hard to get the lil bastards off my leg and the I had to run to get away. I want justice, ruined a good pair of jeans. Hell I remember the time I went christmas tree shopping and I just leaned down to pet this really cute dog. My dad and brother was with me and I didn't get to pick the tree. Was to busy shaking the lil shit off my leg the whole damn time. Justice!!! :P :P
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so my hand got stuck... do I call a gynecologist or a general surgeon?
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Lol Unhealer, you would have to help her relax then.
@Sinnnn
Didn't the owner keep an eye on the dog? I always do when I'm out with my parents dog. You have to be real stricts and resolute with dogs if they act bad... but then I've grown up with dogs around me.
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i won't even bother voting on this because it would really be a like/dislike for the female. sure guys might like it, but you'd have to find a girl who would let you do it to her
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Tastes are different, ok. But I never, never, never wanna even see the possibility to purchase this! You know, you see every possible position, even if you haven't got it.
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wow we all been asking for more touching ! Not for me or my little ass
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:o My Gyn. doesn't even put her whole hand in me. Good lord, you have to draw the line somewhere. This is where its drawn for me. I don't even want to pretend doing that! OOOUUUUUUUCH!
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Hell fisting is alot more than just touching, like giving birth the opposite way. Didn't care for it the normal way so hell wouldn't care for the opposite way. :'( :'(
Won't stop ppl from having their own fetish but I will be looking the other way hard when they walk by me. ;D ;)
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I prefer to punch the babies from the outside of the uterus myself
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@ Unhealer > Bad Joke time out for you ! Thats right in the corner ! LOL :D
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I'm late with this one
Santa's gettin' ripped and he's lost some weight
He's on a low-carb diet and he's lookin' great
He's got a sack full of rubbers and you better believe
The ladies will be screaming on Christmas Eve!
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@ Unhealer lol we have a poet amongst us ;D lol
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:o Ouch, never done it, but if I ever get the urge, I'll make sure to try it with a girl with small hands, not some dock-worker that can hide your face with one hand.
It may be a size queen-thing, after they've graduated from hung-like-a-stallion black guys... ;)
*is so not going to think about it any further*
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@ Unhealer > Bad Joke time out for you ! Thats right in the corner ! LOL :D
FALCON PUNCH!
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@ Ardeur :D yeah , you're right, i think its better to try it with a girl woh has small hands and know how she can use it.
or you search for a guy who has hands like paddles ,trying to search for some oil down there :D :D :D
But anyway this whole fisting thing,reminds me at an artificial insemination of an female cow :D :D
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@ Alstott OMG!!!! HAHAHA that's awful!!
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OMG He`s right ! w the discription ! I`ve seen that done GROSS ! :o
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I`ve seen it too and believe me i don`t wanna try it , but fo others , have fun if you like it :D
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@ Ardeur :D yeah , you're right, i think its better to try it with a girl woh has small hands and know how she can use it.
or you search for a guy who has hands like paddles ,trying to search for some oil down there :D :D :D
But anyway this whole fisting thing,reminds me at an artificial insemination of an female cow :D :D
No drilling for oil in my body-cavities with equipment I can't close my hands around, so definitely no paddle-hands :P
No feet either, who knows where those have been? :-X
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@Ardeur i`m totally agree with you, make sure where it comes from ;)
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Ok I keep looking at the pic ! INFO plz ! That can`t possible be done in real ? Just cyber right !
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Which pic you mean?
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The fisting one ! :o
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Well it looks that she enjoys it to me ;) you must try it ,if you wanna know how this works ;) of course its possible
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Sunny fisting is a rl sexual practice. It's not something done lightly, but it is done, and it's not TOO unbelievable. I mean we can give birth and a baby is noticeably larger. If you REALLY want to cringe however there IS such a thing as anal fisting, but that's even more out there because while the vagina has a degree of elasticity for giving birth the anal cavity has none and must be watched CAREFULLY for a definite danger of tearing.
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The ones practising anal fisting a lot tend to be very loose so I guess they've kinda gotten past the worst part of tearing... though they'll probably have other problems from getting to that point. I guess people like things like that because they'll get pushed to the extreme and for some... pain is lots of pleasure which I don't really understand.
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I've always shied away from that sort of thing. One thing that is assured about BDSM is that you WILL have an oops. It's a when not an if, and I'd rather an event like when I first used nipple clamps and left them on her a touch too long then have a trip to the er and the resulting explanations.
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Never tried myself to do that to a woman,..though close,...the anal action I wouldn't even consider,...the long term possible ramifications of damage are just too great.
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Oh shit Janine, I hope the girl wasn't pissed about it.
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Not at all. Submissives I feel worthy of the title KNOW too that there will be mistakes. Someone can't be expected to perform every technique perfectly every time. When you add the fact that each submissive is a different person the Dominant has to relearn their technique time and time again. No reasonable person will expect perfection under those circumstances.
That doesn't mean you don't try, but you know that it's GOING to happen.
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I would feel a bit bad any way.
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I used to beat myself up quite handily over the very concept. The problem with that is the realities of BDSM. The submissive is as responsible as the Dominant for what happens, period.
They may surrender control, but they ARE responsible for who they surrender control to.
If they do it casually with someone they don't know very well there's a fairly good chance they will be hurt, and possibly severely. If they push a Dominant to do something before the Dominant is ready the odds of an oops go up, the oops being far more serious based on the type of play.
On the other hand a submissive who gets to know the Dominant, their likes, their dislikes, and their limits (we Dominants have them too) the oops that may come is most often the kind of thing that just slows or stops play, needs a little after care and never comes up again.
It's the other types that lead to ER visits and legal issues.
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Yeah I guessed you could already handle these kinds of things considering your experience with it. :)
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If I understand correctly from Janine's words, there must be a great deal to be agreed on before sub and dom start their play. Seems to be the hardest when you first meet. The more you get to know eachother the easier it gets. But ti seems to me, difficulties start when one party doesn't live up to the agreement and asks for something that might be over their own or the other's limit..
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I'm also careful not to buy my own hype Adera ;). All modesty aside I'm good, very good, a natural even, but once I started that natural part of me was also ready to remind my ego that when I have another persons safety in my hands I can NOT take that lightly.
Where I am going is that I have a GREAT responsibility because I'm not the one that's been tied up, but that submissive has to communicate their wants and needs before, during and after. In many cases like during they can communicate by not communicating and I know I'm not truly hurting them, but it could be as simple as a muscle cramping after being bound. Unless I'm looking closely at the muscle in question I'm not going to realize it unless the submissive lets me know.
An example that didn't happen to me was a gay male Dominant with a new submissive. They were having a WONDERFUL session until the Dominant said "Take it like a man." The submissive had an abusive father, and their father said the exact same thing, and the submissive started panicking and needed to stop.
The Dominant stopped and immediately moved to aftercare.
What's perfect about that example is both parties fulfilled all their responsibilities and still managed to have a session go bad because they managed to hit an old poorly healed mental wound. The submissive didn't realize he could still be effected by that past event, and the Dominant didn't know there was a key phrase like that.
I once heard a submissive say it beautifully when he said that sometimes they don't realize a line got crossed until after a session ends entirely, but he also said that he considered it his responsibility to communicate the full event to his Mistress, and to know that she would never seek to truly harm him.
So for Tight, the agreement is vital, but as much in spirit as it is in letter.
In BDSM there are hard limits and soft limits. Sharing one of mine I would say a soft limit as a Domme would be breaking the skin... it just feels like starting down a bad path. However I watched another Domme whip a submissive as well as use a disposable scalpel to cut her (disposable for sanitary reasons, opened for the session and discarded after) and afterward the Domme honored me by letting me look at the injuries and it was like reading BDSM sheet music to tell light cuts versus the more scraped lines from the whipping.
Breath play however is a hard limit, because the epidermis heals much better then a brain deprived of oxygen ever will. In my mind breath play could mean PERMANENTLY damaging a submissive, BUT I had a sub who tried to press me on the issue, and she was so sure, and so trusting and so eager, I faltered, not for long, but I did, and then I stopped it myself.
As I see it it's not so much a matter of knowing each others roles, but knowing ones own, and finding another as strong and secure in theirs.
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Pose Reviews score:
Do you think this pose is worth it? Please rate –
1 Star. - No. Hate it. Don’t bother – its rubbish.
2 Stars. - Yes. Didn’t like it much. Will buy it if I have A$ to waste.
3 Stars. - Yes. Liked it. Will use this occasionally but other poses need collecting first.
4 Stars. - Yes. Really liked it. Will use regular. A good add to my collection.
5 Stars. - Yes. Excellent. A must have. Will use this often.
Pose Review - 46. Fisting:
(https://i.imgur.com/vJVke0B.jpg)
This is an extreme pose. It can be found in the "Using hands or dildo " Section of the in-game Achat Shopping Mall.
Men's Actions
1. Enjoy
2. Jerk off
3. Fondle own Ass
4. Finger in Asshole
5. Massage R breast
6. Grab leg
7. Strong movement (L Fisting while R heeling pussy)
8. Fondle own chest
9. Rub clit (with thumb)
10. Lick Pussy (while fisting – hot)
11. Fondle leg
12. Pull out (Hot)
13. Kiss thigh
14, 15 & 16 Pleasure faces x 3
Women's Actions
1. Enjoy
2. Massage Breast
3. Rubs Clit
4. Foot on Chest
5. Watch the Man
6. Grab Hand
7. Grab Legs
8. Legs Up
9. Suck Finger
10. Pinch Nipples
11. Hip Circle
12. Pinch Nipple (His)
13. Leg on Shoulder
14, 15 & 16. Pleasure Face
This is an extreme pose. Used carefully, it can be a really hot and exciting pose. Fisting is never to be taken lightly though and if done wrongly it can hurt and disrespect the lady. RL experiences can well be bought into the moment then and into the VL play and spoil it. Personally I have used this on occasions when I know the lady quite well and have built up a trust with her. I would have liked a build up to the fist ... 1, 3, 5 finger pokes before the actual fisting and would also have liked a reassuring kiss action. It’s a great pose if used correctly. It’s worth having in your poses. 5 stars.
JessiCapri wrote “This pose was a bit outside of my comfort zone but I can say I have no regrets. Very Hot with the right partner but I guess the same can be said of any pose. I give this Five Stars.”
* * * * * 5 Stars. - Yes. Excellent. A must have. Will use as appropriate