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Discussions about sex => Erotic Stories => Topic started by: Kaileen on March 31, 2010, 01:35:23 PM
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I know a lot of people get off on just playing around with the different poses, however, I'm not one of these. Therefore I would like to offer a few friendly pointers that might help make your experience more exciting while making love in a virtual world.
A few facts:- While having sex in a virtual world you do not get the physical touch from your partner, so in order to enhance your experience you need to replace this with emotions and imagery.
- The virtual world is never going to offer you all the poses and positions you would like to try. To achieve the desired effect you will have to "proxy" it, meaning you select the closest match and describe the rest.
- In difference to real life, where you are present at the actual act of having sex, having cybersex means you try to experience things through an avatar while sitting in front of your computer. Hence you need to care for your pleasure in real life while you provide sufficient stimuli for your partner through typing. This can be quite difficult, but I'll try to offer some advice later on.
Descriptive sex:
There are, as far as I know, two types of descriptive sex: where you describe your feelings and actions in real life, and where you describe the feelings and actions of your avatar. I usually use code to mix the two in order to provide as much stimuli to my partner as I can.
The codes I use are the following:- Actions or feelings that my avatar does are proceeded with a "*" sign. Example: *I move closer to you, rest my head on your shoulder, and sigh happily*. Example 2: *My face twists in agony as you twist my nipples*
- Dialogue is used with no proceeding sign, although exceptions may need to be made during roleplay. If a roleplaying session has started and I'm started to get emerged in the story I find it helpful to simply put out of character dialogue within brackets to make it clear to my partner that it is not a thing my avatar is telling him/her. Example: (give me a moment, I'll be right back)
- Actions and feelings that I do in real life are within brackets: ( ). Example: (Give me a moment while I undress). Example 2: (I am going to masturbate for a while so I might not type for a bit). Example 3: (Orgasm, fingers shaking, sticky, can't type... cleaning)
Roleplaying:
I find virtual sex to be a lot better, and easier, if I'm immersed in a role. I might decide with my partner beforehand on a story that we are playing out, we might decide upon the roles and a short background story. Some of the great sessions I've had have been quite elaborate and lasted for several 4 hour sessions (yes, roleplaying sessions can get quite long). What I find makes virtual sex easier through roleplaying is that you have things to talk about, and things to describe, during sex if you play a role.
Example 1: I've played a sweet and innocent girl who lost her diary. The diary was picked up by a pervert who used it to blackmail me into becoming his sex slave. That's all the details we needed to get started, and then the story just evolved from there. (For those interested: he blackmailed me into having sex with him once, he filmed it, sent the video to my character's boyfriend who then left me but not before giving the video to my parents who then kicked me out. Thus forcing me to seek shelter elsewhere, but without other contacts I ended up living as a sex slave with the guy who blackmailed me in the first place)
Example 2: I've played very simple roles too. One started out with me having a broken sandal, and a guy on the street offered to fix the strap in his apartment. Once there he started to seduce me. What was interesting here was that I could talk about how I was on my way to school, how sweet he was for fixing the sandal, and how I wanted to reward him for his kindness. We automatically had things to talk about, and my partner could describe his apartment and how he seduced me based on what he knew about my character.
You do not have to create long background stories (although I've been with people who've written several pages in preparation for a session with me). Just having a scene, a role, and describing what you say and so goes a long way to achieve immersion.
Descriptive Roleplaying Sex:
It's very difficult to convey emotions and provide stimuli to a stranger. What descriptive roleplaying gives you is immersion, which helps put a person in a certain mindset. It is a lot easier to relate to a fictive role than an actual person, and I believe it is because we base our fictive roles on known concepts. These concepts can help you with dialogue, can help you describe what you do, they can cause you to feel certain things you otherwise wouldn't feel, and they can give you a very powerful orgasm (the best orgasm I ever had was actually during cybersex and not during real sex).
Example:
Woman: *I knock on the door* Hello? You called me and said you found my diary
Man: Yah, come on in *looks at the lovely young girl as she enters and offers a sly grin*
Man: I decided I want a reward for handing it over
Woman: r..reward? Uhm, I... I suppose I could give you *looks in my wallet for some money*
Man: No, not that kind of reward *moves closer and grabs hold of the girl's arm*
Woman: *chocked* Hey, let go of me!
... I think you get the picture, gonna spare you the rest of the story as I'm sure not everyone want to read about a girl being blackmailed into becoming a sex slave. I happen to like it though... These dialogues can continue into the sex act, or you could let your characters turn silent and just describe what you do, how you touch your partner, how you tease, etc. Or, you could mix dialogue with descriptions, whatever you feel comfortable with.
Pleasing yourself and your partner:
It is very important to me that I manage to please my partner, and that I manage to please myself. I never have cybersex unless I intend to actually get a real life orgasm. So, when do you find the time to masturbate etc. while typing so much? I suppose that's where the time aspect comes in. If you just want a quick orgasm you might as well watch porn.
The whole point with cybersex is the buildup, or at least that's what I think. During the whole buildup, during the roleplay, you might get a few opportunities to masturbate, but you don't really need that much time once you get into it. Once you're into the act of having sex I'm sure you'll be so turned on that you only require a minute or two to climax. And for that amount of time you can just tell your partner to keep going while you masturbate.
Of course men have the advantage of being able to please themselves without getting their hands messy (until it's over that is). Women, like me, might not be so lucky as my fingers tend to get sticky, however, I can use a vibrator which is a bonus. Just be respectful of each other and allow your partner enough time to reach climax. After all, it's supposed to be a pleasurable experience for both, right?
I hope you have enjoyed this little guide to cybersex, and please feel free to comment. I don't claim to have all the answers, I just wanted to share some of my own experiences...
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nice ;D
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Finally someone who gets the idea of adding realistic content to the digital world. I think what we are exposed to is thought of as the "norm" & that can result in missing out on alot. When I first started exploring the intimate side of the virtual world I didn't have the benefits of animations like the ones in AChat so I had to be descriptive, & it's what I'm used to & enjoy. Don't get me wrong I love the animations, I just see it as a bonus to the overall experience. But just sitting there watching the anims? be better off watching porn lol.
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Kaileen... I love you. I love you and I want to gay marry you. ;)
Seriously though I've been using ideas very similar to yours for cybersex ever since I learned of the concept.
Though I will say the only "code" I tend to use is ** for actions, and even that's primarily if I'm mixing words and actions. In my experience once the connection is found and that chemistry is flowing you get that if your partner is typing "OMG, OMG So GOOODDDDD." that's obviously words, and "My eyes are smiling at you brightly as I pull my fingers out of you and keep that eye contact as I lick them clean." would obviously be an action.
Just like "BRB gotta wash my hands." Is going to be a requirement not to ruin ones keyboard.
On the need to be descriptive... honey you did a service starting this topic. When I first logged onto AChat I will admit I was a bit of a tramp. It was just all so neat that if a woman invited me I usually agreed. That however quickly got old as I would be typing out lines, and lines, and lines of description, and get "yeah" or "oohh that's nice" so I quickly learned to start filtering out those partners and focusing on those who gave as well as they got.
(Actually it's a second reason to avoid cold invites as those who aren't imaginative enough to give you a reason to want to join them probably aren't going to be very capable at descriptive text.)
So yes, yes, and yes, and Ill even throw in a Ohhhhhhhhhh yes! because we are talking cybersex.
As far as roleplaying... I just discovered that on here, but I have been having a wonderful journey of discovery.
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Kaileen... I love you. I love you and I want to gay marry you. ;)
Seriously though I've been using ideas very similar to yours for cybersex ever since I learned of the concept.
Though I will say the only "code" I tend to use is ** for actions, and even that's primarily if I'm mixing words and actions. In my experience once the connection is found and that chemistry is flowing you get that if your partner is typing "OMG, OMG So GOOODDDDD." that's obviously words, and "My eyes are smiling at you brightly as I pull my fingers out of you and keep that eye contact as I lick them clean." would obviously be an action.
Just like "BRB gotta wash my hands." Is going to be a requirement not to ruin ones keyboard.
Thanks for the compliments sweetie *hugs*.
As for the codes I think it's ok to use whatever you feel comfortable with. As long as you are aware of the fact that you are balancing different personas (avatar and real life) and don't get them mixed up to the point where it gets distracting or confusing. The codes are more of a side-note to the fact that intimate cybersex is based on imagery that you have to convey with words rather than actual images. You need to describe all the subtle movements of your hands, your expression, your feelings. If the codes help you do this then I recommend you use them, if you can manage fine without I think that's just as swell...
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Congratulations Kaileen!
Let me admit, I often explain the setting. I dont only have sex in a room with just a bed; i use tables, chairs, beach, shower...Then we talk about our clothes using in the scene. If I am at beach I wear another dress then my avatar. And its silly to put off (with words) the dress the avatar is wearing, if the scene needs other clothes. Actually I ask what my girl is wearing in real, to make it as natural as possible.
I use toys we dont have in AChat: Feather, dildo, ice cubes, blindfold...to coddle
I tell as accurate as possible what I am doing with which part of the body to share the same emotion. I wait for the reaction before I go on...
And you are absolutely right: I had great sex and wonderful orgasm just through this "head cinema". Sometimes I really felt the things that happened virtual.
Lover
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Thanks for the advice. I'm new and am a male interested in this kind of roleplay. Though I have experience as a roleplayer, I am a newb in this area.
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I love RP alot. What I look for in a Achat partner is imagination thats why I don't do cold invites. My Apartner and I will discuss what we want to do that day(if we disagree we'll compromise). Then we pick our outfits and play our roles. We might be two cops that got bored on a sting operation, decided to go at it in the undercover car and we will play that character. I'll get discriptive telling you how the frabric feels on my skin, or I might joke around with my rp.
I have meet some guys here who have a nice personality but their imagination comes up short. For ex: I'll say, grab my hair and the guy will say, you can't do that here(achat room). I'll ask the guy what do you want to do to me and do it, don't let the room limit you. Because you can't grab or tickle dosen't mean you can't do it.
Thats what ppl have to remember about role playing, its all in your head. You can be anywhere, anyone and do anything you want(as long as your partner agrees). And of course I love your ideas guys, ;D
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I know a lot of people get off on just playing around with the different poses, however, I'm not one of these. Therefore I would like to offer a few friendly pointers that might help make your experience more exciting while making love in a virtual world.
A few facts:- While having sex in a virtual world you do not get the physical touch from your partner, so in order to enhance your experience you need to replace this with emotions and imagery.
- The virtual world is never going to offer you all the poses and positions you would like to try. To achieve the desired effect you will have to "proxy" it, meaning you select the closest match and describe the rest.
- In difference to real life, where you are present at the actual act of having sex, having cybersex means you try to experience things through an avatar while sitting in front of your computer. Hence you need to care for your pleasure in real life while you provide sufficient stimuli for your partner through typing. This can be quite difficult, but I'll try to offer some advice later on.
Descriptive sex:
There are, as far as I know, two types of descriptive sex: where you describe your feelings and actions in real life, and where you describe the feelings and actions of your avatar. I usually use code to mix the two in order to provide as much stimuli to my partner as I can.
The codes I use are the following:- Actions or feelings that my avatar does are proceeded with a "*" sign. Example: *I move closer to you, rest my head on your shoulder, and sigh happily*. Example 2: *My face twists in agony as you twist my nipples*
- Dialogue is used with no proceeding sign, although exceptions may need to be made during roleplay. If a roleplaying session has started and I'm started to get emerged in the story I find it helpful to simply put out of character dialogue within brackets to make it clear to my partner that it is not a thing my avatar is telling him/her. Example: (give me a moment, I'll be right back)
- Actions and feelings that I do in real life are within brackets: ( ). Example: (Give me a moment while I undress). Example 2: (I am going to masturbate for a while so I might not type for a bit). Example 3: (Orgasm, fingers shaking, sticky, can't type... cleaning)
Roleplaying:
I find virtual sex to be a lot better, and easier, if I'm immersed in a role. I might decide with my partner beforehand on a story that we are playing out, we might decide upon the roles and a short background story. Some of the great sessions I've had have been quite elaborate and lasted for several 4 hour sessions (yes, roleplaying sessions can get quite long). What I find makes virtual sex easier through roleplaying is that you have things to talk about, and things to describe, during sex if you play a role.
Example 1: I've played a sweet and innocent girl who lost her diary. The diary was picked up by a pervert who used it to blackmail me into becoming his sex slave. That's all the details we needed to get started, and then the story just evolved from there. (For those interested: he blackmailed me into having sex with him once, he filmed it, sent the video to my character's boyfriend who then left me but not before giving the video to my parents who then kicked me out. Thus forcing me to seek shelter elsewhere, but without other contacts I ended up living as a sex slave with the guy who blackmailed me in the first place)
Example 2: I've played very simple roles too. One started out with me having a broken sandal, and a guy on the street offered to fix the strap in his apartment. Once there he started to seduce me. What was interesting here was that I could talk about how I was on my way to school, how sweet he was for fixing the sandal, and how I wanted to reward him for his kindness. We automatically had things to talk about, and my partner could describe his apartment and how he seduced me based on what he knew about my character.
You do not have to create long background stories (although I've been with people who've written several pages in preparation for a session with me). Just having a scene, a role, and describing what you say and so goes a long way to achieve immersion.
Descriptive Roleplaying Sex:
It's very difficult to convey emotions and provide stimuli to a stranger. What descriptive roleplaying gives you is immersion, which helps put a person in a certain mindset. It is a lot easier to relate to a fictive role than an actual person, and I believe it is because we base our fictive roles on known concepts. These concepts can help you with dialogue, can help you describe what you do, they can cause you to feel certain things you otherwise wouldn't feel, and they can give you a very powerful orgasm (the best orgasm I ever had was actually during cybersex and not during real sex).
Example:
Woman: *I knock on the door* Hello? You called me and said you found my diary
Man: Yah, come on in *looks at the lovely young girl as she enters and offers a sly grin*
Man: I decided I want a reward for handing it over
Woman: r..reward? Uhm, I... I suppose I could give you *looks in my wallet for some money*
Man: No, not that kind of reward *moves closer and grabs hold of the girl's arm*
Woman: *chocked* Hey, let go of me!
... I think you get the picture, gonna spare you the rest of the story as I'm sure not everyone want to read about a girl being blackmailed into becoming a sex slave. I happen to like it though... These dialogues can continue into the sex act, or you could let your characters turn silent and just describe what you do, how you touch your partner, how you tease, etc. Or, you could mix dialogue with descriptions, whatever you feel comfortable with.
Pleasing yourself and your partner:
It is very important to me that I manage to please my partner, and that I manage to please myself. I never have cybersex unless I intend to actually get a real life orgasm. So, when do you find the time to masturbate etc. while typing so much? I suppose that's where the time aspect comes in. If you just want a quick orgasm you might as well watch porn.
The whole point with cybersex is the buildup, or at least that's what I think. During the whole buildup, during the roleplay, you might get a few opportunities to masturbate, but you don't really need that much time once you get into it. Once you're into the act of having sex I'm sure you'll be so turned on that you only require a minute or two to climax. And for that amount of time you can just tell your partner to keep going while you masturbate.
Of course men have the advantage of being able to please themselves without getting their hands messy (until it's over that is). Women, like me, might not be so lucky as my fingers tend to get sticky, however, I can use a vibrator which is a bonus. Just be respectful of each other and allow your partner enough time to reach climax. After all, it's supposed to be a pleasurable experience for both, right?
I hope you have enjoyed this little guide to cybersex, and please feel free to comment. I don't claim to have all the answers, I just wanted to share some of my own experiences...
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Did you add anything vinicius? Or just quote all of Kaileen's post?
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maybe he thought we didn't see it the first time. its really easy to miss. :P
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New to tis concept of descriptive Sex,...will add a thought of something I tried. Consider using external aides to heighten your experience. share music together (although a burdensome in coordinating...)...use it to create the atmosphere of the moment, a romantic dance under the stars,...or nightclub. Coordinate the use of other audio waves besides...Ocean sounds, rainfall....elements that can add to the story and experience you are acting on. The most exquisite evening I have had employed such...dancing on a beach-side patio under the stars..transitioning to the ocean sounds as we retired to more intimate quarters...which lasted just long enough before the passion of the moment made it irrelevant.
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Damn Bear, you just made me realize i'm lacking a romantic side. Like the idea. ;D
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I'm just posting because I want this topic visible on the main page rather then that spammy feeling post by that guy for his own page.
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Kaileen, thank you for this great helpful post!
The thing I'm sometimes struggling with is how to combine descriptions of what's happening in real life (which turn me on) with the actions/story in the virtual setting. The brackets are an excellent idea for that.
Still, I would like to know if it's just me, or that it really takes lots and lots of practice to balance talk, fantasy, choosing poses/actions, and playing with yourself in the process. When I'm really into it, I forget to click on things, or start typing erratically. Any tips on how to improve this would be greatly appreciated :)
X Carli
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Practice, practice, practice ;D
Seriously though, some things like typing just have to be sacrificed. I know for me the more into it I get the less I worry about spelling... as long as the word looks like what I wanted to say I'm okay with it.
The "tip" would be to let yourself get lost in the moment. I've had amazing encounters that had my avatar standing there looking at hers and we purely typed to each other. While just the other day in a play session we used positions, with text modifiers for how were "really" were in comparison to what the avatars were doing.
Tune into your partner(s), express what you want, and find that mix... it doesn't even require "practice" just taking a little extra time to get in tune with each other.
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Welcome to the board Carli,...
Janine point is right on...don't worry about grammar, spelling when at those critical points,...relax enjoy, immerse yourself into the image of the words or action. It's not like the Grammar police are going to bust into the room and handcuff you,...unless that is part of the fantasy. (actually...the more the spelling deteriorates...I can sense a need for myself to assume more of a role in the story...hopefully leading the degradation of the spelling which becomes reciprocal )
As far as the poses go,...well that necessity depends on the partner and their imagination,...I know I can get wrapped up in the words and find myself not worried about the poses, however some partners just can't fly on without it. Familiarity with a partner will eventually settle that issue and the balance will eventually find itself.
Here's to the hope you have many happy hours of practice though.
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As a long time resident in SecondLife, I agree fully with the original post. Detailed and descriptive RP is what makes these encounters worth the monthly fee.
Now having said that.. There IS a slightly different way of approach. Instead of indicating your actions, describe them. For example:
As I step from the shadows, the bright glow of the ember of my cigarette lights my face. Slowly drawing on the smoke, then staring hard into your soft eyes, I whisper deeply, "Imagine seeing someone as sexy as you here."
Slowly I exhale as my hand drops from my pocket, a length of rope unfurls in it and dangles down. "You shouldn't have came this far into the city, princess. It's not healthy"
The dark shape takes a step towards you as the smoke circles your head.
Hello all. My name's Ogart. And if are a like minded RPer.. give me a shout..
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I guess that means I have to be on the lookout for people that don't depend too much on poses ;)
And I sure hope to get lots of practice indeed, but so far that hasn't been a problem :)
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I haven't had much success role-playing. Mainly because I lack the imagination of those such as Ogart and their use of descriptive text. I am trying to improve and this guide is a big step in the right direction. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us, Kaileen. A truly excellent read.
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@Carli
Actually, another reason to decline Cold Invites is that those who don't have the imagination to talk to you before entering the room aren't likely to develop much of one once inside.
Many times that chatting will give you a good idea of how it will be in room, and I don't mean flirting (though that certainly is possible).The ones I remember, the ones I look for when I log on are the ones I connected with, most often before ever entering the room.
A personal favorite (I won't name in case she doesn't want to be) caught my eye, but had a pizza she needed to go pick up. So we had a little bit of chat, but then didn't talk for like two weeks, BUT when I saw her again I HAD to talk to her. Ever since then we pounce on each other every time we are both on and *purrrrrrrrrrrs* well she caught me with her personality while I was still fully dressed.
Another I had just thought looked adorable each time I saw her on list, each time she never failed to catch my eye... then one night I finally said hello, and she was yet another lovely to reach right through that computer and touch me.
There is no formula, just trust your instincts.
@Elijah
The key to rp is just filling in detail. The more elaborate, more fantastic stuff will come with practice. Start small, I mean getting the avatars naked is done in a blink... in RP did you let her undress herself? Or do it for her? Start with things like that and stuff like settings or costumes will develop naturally.
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Janine, you touch me already :D
Couldn't agree with you more on the talking-before-the-room thing. Sometimes I feel like a little girl again, because every day I learn of new wonderful things, and wonderful people here.
Speaking of favorites, I had an encounter this morning... mmm... ;)
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@Elijah
A good practice suggestion I might make is to work offline, aka Janine's suggestion, think about, ...visualize it set it to words in a setting where there is no immediate pressure to react. A few attempts at this and you may unlock that imaginative power or the muse to flow in a real time setting. (Undressing your partner, holding her in your arms...think what you might be doing and set it to words)
As to creative setups,..., here again imagination does help, but it need not be as elaborate to start with as Ogart's wonderful introduction. One of the most erotic intense experiences happened on a spontaneous whim while sitting in my home office chatting on-line, I suddenly flashed on office sex on my desk, threw the idea out there (in a way, an off hand remark of the idea) suddenly found myself in an erotic, vivid encounter,..., nothing fancy...no elaborate lead ins...
Don't make it complicated, work simple and it will follow.
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Thank you for your inspirational post, Bear.
Sometimes I do have an imaginative moment but then struggle to put them on paper without sounding too ordinary and boring. I don't really have a great vocabulary at my disposal.
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Nice post. This should be a sticky! No... that kind,, I mean the kind that stays at the top of the board for people to refer to. =)
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If only AZN, but some just aren't interested. They just want to pleasure themselves while watching the avatars grins and have a person on the other end who will change positions with them, and sometimes suggest different ones.
Still, I'm glad you consider this important... the more RPers on AChat the better.
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Or if you have a friend on achat, maybe you can ask them to help you practice RP. RP to RP, LOL. ;D
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Or if you have a friend on achat, maybe you can ask them to help you practice RP. RP to RP, LOL. ;D
OR maybe there should be an RP virtual room. I discussed the virtual area idea in one of my other posts in response to another person's idea. I think that way you know the people who are IN the RP room are actually interested in RP.
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Actually... yes that is a really good idea. By allowing people to go into a rp chat section they are making it clear they are there to rp... would streamline things tremendously. It would save those wanting to rp from wasting a lot of time and effort while allowing those who just want a have the avatars grind away from having to deal with tons of rp text.
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I don't think there must be an extra room for RP. You wanna make sure that your partner really does RP? I think someone who is interested in RP can tell you what he/she likes. Or begin during the chat, not just in the room. Sure, there may be (cold) invites in this time, but you can ignore them.
What could be interesting is the idea of a Masked ball. I imagine, you really can't see who is under this mask. Maybe you just know the sex. I'm sure this will be funny...
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Yeah I would have to second the masked ball idea because I think I mentioned that in one of my other posts too. LOL.
How about this for RP.
I straighten your bunny ears hairband. Then I scratch you behind the ears. "Why your tail not so fluffy, bunny girl?" I give her a carrot.
Suggestions for improvement?? :D
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Well we would all know who the person is because of their handle, but we could still play the dress up part. That's more what I was going for, but if you want to do it AZN just start a post like my pool party I started in "Say what you think..."
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This is it Janine. Of course you will recognize your friends after some/short time. That's not forbidden ;)
Just in the beginning you do not see who is your talk partner and of course there also will be guests you do not know.
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Of course a person could make this very interesting if the parties attending created a alias account on the forum solely for the attendance of the ball, There's where your mystery of a mask developes...just a thought.
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Well we would all know who the person is because of their handle, but we could still play the dress up part. That's more what I was going for, but if you want to do it AZN just start a post like my pool party I started in "Say what you think..."
OK, I will try to cook something up. Give me some time to think.
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Coo idea love it,At but it must be invitation only, please!! I just don't want to have to filter out the buttheads. Thats the only downside to a mask ball. :-\ :D
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Me too, I love this idea! Besides wearing a mask, you could change your avatar completely for the occasion, so that looks can be very deceiving :)
Although I'd probably be figured out by the people who know me pretty fast :D
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I think each masked ball has to have a motto. What about soccer championship? Any clothing must have a reference to soccer. And our faces are hidden with balls, as it is a masked ball; uuuh, bad joke :D
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Though it invites me to make the joke about my poor ball handling skills.
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So we're really gonna have a ball then... ;D
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you can have mine if you like ;)
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So you have one huh, Bobby? ;D
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The thread is up. come and play. :)
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yes i have one...one for each of you :o
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Bobbler, you offer them your balls. So friendly. But do you really believe they will take them and stop? You know, give a finger an dthey will take the whole hand. So I am curious what they will do with you. Tell me please. :D
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Wait a minute.... Bobbler just hands them his... fellas and hopes they'll let him have them back. So the three of them got married? ;D :P
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Please Janine, I thought we had something special an you would curse me with a life of marriage with a (gasp, hand to throat) MAN. Ummm I'm kind of sexist, Men are cute to have on your arms, to pet an give little gifts to, an to screw an send them on home with a smile. But marriage, unless they can be barefoot and preggers in the kitchen or very easy to control never.(Joking guys, don't send me any hate mail, LOL). ;D
Anyway Bobby offers but I think he'll run away in the end. C and I will just be too much for him to handle. We will call you when he skips town and see if you can handle us ;)
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Sinnnn my lovely in that situation you described even if I would loose I would win. That said I wouldn't loose, we'd all win, repeatedly, because were girls and we can. ;D :-*
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At least we can't deny bobbler has balls, since he's offering them to us like that :D
And who knows: the guy with the biggest balls often gets the girl(s)? But I agree with you Sinnnn, he's going to be in big (ball) trouble ;D
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True besides I owe Bobby a very interesting room visit. After we are done Carli I think he will offer his balls to us on keychains to keep. This will be sooo fun, don't chicken out Bobby. Oops sorry Bob aka the ex-ruler of Hell, Satan(I rule now babes) :P ;D
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This is a riot!!! ;D
Be gentle with me girls, please ;)
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Bobbler, you offer them your balls. So friendly. But do you really believe they will take them and stop? You know, give a finger an dthey will take the whole hand. So I am curious what they will do with you. Tell me please. :D
I'll let you know after it happens Lover...maybe ;)
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but why when you play a roleplay not do so already? For me this is not a new thing I'm surprised that they think all people who love RPGs. but if you hope that you make available achat symbols to understand the action, then you should expect much. there are many other things required in this chat and incumbent too long such as 3 Some did well.
for the rest to those who like to create history for all is an orgasm, he can write sentences Priam and save them for each character and then copy and paste them into achat, and the game is simplified
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I'm sorry stella, sometimes I don't quite understand what you mean, but if I am understanding you are asking to cut and paste from an "script" into chat to help speed up the flow of the role playing?
While I can see SOME things like the "I'm coming!!!" but for my part chat needs to stay loose and flexible I want to have what I type up more in the moment, typos and all.
But that's my A$.02.
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When I first started playing AChat, i went into a room with anyone willing, being happy with looking at the animations of the game. But as mentioned before, that got pretty old. Because I like to write erotic stories (yes, they might be called porn stories...lol), I experimented with tossing out a few lines while in a room and discovered not only that it pleased me, but also the girl I was with.
I think that adding story-lines, fantasies, surroundings and rp into the game, gives it a lot of depth. The person on the other side becomes 3d in my mind and not just on screen. Knowing or finding what turns the other on, exploring boundries and finding your limits, offers a wide expansion of the possibilities with this game. It's all in our heads. And when I play, I just let my imagination take over and the words come by themselves.
Exploring my own sexuality, finding my bounrdries tickled my fancy to try more in rl and not just AChat. Not just the positions (made someone very happy with the skills I got from AChat), but also the setting, clothing and surroundinsg have added to my personal lovelife. I hope to encounter more ppl who want to extend their experiences with AChat by adding more depth to it
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That said I was in a room and the woman I was with wanted to get into every intricate detail. The problem that can arise with that is too many details can slow the action as well as conflict with the images your partner is conjuring in their own head. Detail is good, but over thinking it becomes quite the buzzkill.
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Its kinda hard to keep a good flow and have a hot experiance when booth you and your partner head of into different directions all the time. It has happened to me and its usually when the communication speed differs, most of the time I have to slow down abit :P.
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Its kinda hard to keep a good flow and have a hot experiance when booth you and your partner head of into different directions all the time. It has happened to me and its usually when the communication speed differs, most of the time I have to slow down abit :P.
yes sweetie u r quite a lil chatterbox ;) but i looooove it *giggle* anyway, i find it useful when dialogueing (sp?) in shorter sentenses, to build and keep suspension and get a good flow, to end my sentenses with ...... when im already typing the next one. then my partner knows more is comming and dont feel rushed to answer directly.
to show thoughts i use (xxxxx) and actions *xxxx* and having my hands full with other errrr....things irl i use <<<<< so my partner know he has to go solo in chat 4 a while :P
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Well I start sessions with longer sentences, descriptive of mood and action,..but like you Pse' as the session progresses my posts grow shorter...likewise if I get shorter responses I know that my partner is truly embbed in the action.
Intensity is generally accented by implementing capitals... "a rolling thrust" ...amplified by "ROLLING THRUSTS"... though I don't both with "..." they know more is arriving.
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Mmm intensity... slow down big boy or I'll cum. :P
I can use *xxxx* for action or "xxxx" for saying things but that's just an agreement thing.
@Pse: Hmm you can shut me up with something if you like. ;) :-*
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@Pse: Hmm you can shut me up with something if you like. ;) :-*
im trying honey but i never catch u :( o imorn e sista dan ja e hemma ju :'(
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Ååh förlåt älskling, det går så mycket tid på annat hela tiden.
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@Adera,...that would be my intent :P, to send you to that spot where finished, you are still gasping from the pleasure, limp and spent from the action... nerves afire,...so when I breath on you again,... your lust and craving flames anew.
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Uhmmm I'll have to take you up on that Bear.
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Uhmmm I'll have to take you up on that Bear.
u want me to tag along 4 morale support sweetie?
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@Pse: Of course... oops got far too many ideas now. :P
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@Pse: Of course... oops got far too many ideas now. :P
:) lets mail eachother and conspire how we d best take care of lil papa bear :P
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:) lets mail eachother and conspire how we d best take care of lil papa bear :P
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lil? >:(
fyi...papa bear fine,.. I allow that as a term of endearment from my subs'... 8)
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Well we have to tease you some. :P
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Sexier when you say it in swedish ;)
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@Pse: Hmm stå på alla fyra med våra rumpor åt honom, kyssa varandra ömt och fingra varandras kåta hål. Eller ligga tätt intill varandra, kyssandes och gnugga våra hårda snoppar och bröstvårtor emot varandra medans vi kastar några inbjudande blickar åt honom. :P
Good thing I'm not intentionally making it so the text won't get through google translate. ;)
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Choices?,... :P :P :P :P
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Ahaha no you can't choose between those, me and Pse will do want we like to each other... or did you mean whom of us your going to choose? ;) :P
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mm well I am a bit greedy....you know where that leads :P
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Hmm you have to show us. *wiggling my butt to Bear* :P
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Hmm you have to show us. *wiggling my butt to Bear* :P
yes bear bb *lining up next to adera wiggling mine even more* show us! :P
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mmm ...cuming attraction... soon baby.. very soon
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Guess I'll have to play with Pse until you decide to join in. ;)
Looks at Pse with an evil playful smirk and then I throw myself over her giggling in mirth. After some playful wrestling I find myself on top of her, my hard dick poised at her hole I smile wide down at her "Now sweetie, I'm going to fuck your cute butt until your cock spurts all over yourself" and I bend down kissing her... then I slowly push my dick into her... not able to hold back a moan as I feel her warm and tight around me. I look down at her cock noticing how very hard she is... oh... someone is really enjoying herself is she and I wink at her before I start to roll my hips. Looking over my shoulder I see Bear watching us and I wiggle my butt at him, reaches back and fingers myself some while smiling at him.
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Not so much deciding.. I made a decision to ;D.... matter of ever finding the rare opportunity of time.
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Not so much deciding.. I made a decision to ;D.... matter of ever finding the rare opportunity of time.
agree bear bb, life isnt always as free and playful as we want it to be, now is it? :( *consoling embraces, whisperin comforting words of love in ur ear while kissin it ever so softly showerin it with the warmth of my lust for u*
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i love this post. So much true hints and comments. Thanks to all
mutual pleasure is key
The must for me, mutual pleasure is key, and must be romantic, so always better with someone I have learned to know a bit before sex....
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No matter how exciting a first meeting with a lover can be, sudden desire rising or the long wait until the right time is finally there, love making and intimacy grows with getting to know eachother better. Knowing where to touch her/him, what to say and what to do, increases the intensity and depth of the moment (short or extended).
Sometimes to such an extend, that just a word, a gesture or a smile from the other can set your loins on fire and lust and desire flows through your veins in uncontrollable amounts.. ;D
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We would do much of what has been posted in our MMORPGs, and the "rules" actually got fairly elaborate. Mind you, often it wasn't so steamy as AChat, just friends hanging around on a raid or waiting for MOb to spawn. This is why I made another post about emotes.
Story is the key.
To me, just popping into a room and clicking on a pose is about as passionate as a B-grade porn movie, as I am sure most here would agree. As a writer, I find it very important to be descriptive, I want a story out of it, even if not a long story. While we can all play with ourselves while the action is going on, I find that imagining what my character on screen feels and putting it into words greatly increases my own stimulation and interest in the events. I need to understand what my avatar and my partner would be feeling in order to respond accordingly.
In addition, the old writing axiom of "show - don't tell," is even very true here, though can be a bit harder to implement at times.
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mmmh, in a MMO like this, using some good words during the pose it's really important.....here u can't have all the feeling u can have whit a real partner, so having a good immaginatios is really big point. Plus, if peoples like it, a good roleplaying can add a lot of fun to the experience we can have here.
some peoples, just wanna enter into a room, choose the pose and watch it using sometimes the option linked to that pose. well, probably this meke them happy and don't need more stimulation.
to the other side, most peoples wanna add more experience and fun and the only way is to use your imagination and condivide something particular and stimulat you partener whit the right word or a particular sequence in the scene that give u the impression how the situation is evolving betwen u and your partner.
looking at this, i really like the point of view of Kaileen.....i think u can give to u and your partner a really good time!
Edit: i was thinking this....why stuff don't add to the "Favourite games" roleplaying!? this can be a good and fast mode to see who is interessed in this....i see someone have add this to theyr profile and it help a lot!
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A little suggest about the RP: well, this is for the stuff of aChat not for costumer. it can be nice to have the possibility of saving a room chatting, maybe creating a log file when all we type during a room session (not appropriate term) can be saved. Whit it, if u like, u can creat a sort of diary of your RP and have the chance to built a sort of full story whit your partner.....
This can be an option u can be an option u can ativate or not before entering the room.
what did u think about this!?
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The ability to save chat logs could prove very useful period. Though I'm guessing the rapidly vanishing chat material is in part due to save server space.
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The ability to save chat logs could prove very useful period. Though I'm guessing the rapidly vanishing chat material is in part due to save server space.
that's thrue.........so, the log journal (let's call it like this) can directly saved on your pc, in the aChat folder. more MMO games creat a log when u log in inside and a txt file is not that big to make your pc go slowky or full of shit
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Well one can select text from the expanded chat window and save to a file, something I have done in the past in a hot story session. The reality is my sessions at least have always finished on a climatic note , if a story continued (I did have one that ran the course of 10 4 hour sessions) ...it was a situational episode of experiences weaved on a concept of betrayal and blackmail.
RP'ing a storyline for most may be one shot thing. A situational event which is to lead to erotic fulfillment.
Storylines do not have to be complex. Examples from my own: a vacation trip to SF,...picking up my date in a limo which led to a wild encounter..., the first night in the motel room,...a dinner date , night clubbing,...a shopping trip, which led to a wild session in a changing room where I was modeling kilts,...a shower scene,..they were all extensions of a singular premise of a a story just a romantic weekend getaway, and were played out over the course of 2 weeks. Not everyone is wiling to commit to extended story lines like that...but it is fun when you can find a partner willing to engage in extended play idea.
A friend of mine traveled Europe with a friend...visiting several cities as a couple. Guess if I played as a tourist during the right time when the European community was on that would be an interesting concept...lol..Ante never did get me on that plane though... ::)
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I would love to see an overhaul of the chat system. I play Everquest 2 a lot, and find that system very good, as it has emotes, as well as group, guild, raid and general chat, as well as channels. You can actually make up your own personal channel and invite friends in, or have an RP channel in the form of a tavern or such that anybody can join. There is also a global channel that everybody online can be in, and can just shoot the breeze (or make fun of World of Warcraft).
I really, REALLY think AChat could benefit greatly with a similar system in place.
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It is a flexible chat system though I tend to unintentionally end up opening support windows or my bags due to failure to reset to the chat box.
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i for one came from a strictly descriptive site. so was rather disappointed to find the num of people here who do not know how to do descriptive.
this thread was GREATLY needed, lol and i hope it helps alot of folks here.
i dont even feel a need to room very often. unless my partner requests it. one can get all and more than they ever even dreamed of, from descriptive.
and each has there own preferences, i for one like spontaneous as well as pre setting a scene and such. really depends on how well you know your partner.... good luck to all, and i really hope this thread produces an explosion of descriptive typers. chuckle.. all will be greatly enhanced by it iam sure.
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I am relatively descriptive really depends on how i react irl to something that's occurring in game.
Best suggestion i can give to people when it comes to the whole being detailed is ... take your cues from the other person as well. React to what they are typing and then say what your doing.
Its not too difficult in my opinion to be detailed. Also being honest in the type of reactions helps ... if its not something you like being suggested done ... try changing it by text as well.
An example is my nipples are very sensitive irl I don't like them squeezed/twisted.. but i do like them caressed, nibbled and sucked too.
So I can say that in the middle of it and they will usually change.
However one thing i should point out is that you should never what i call "burst type" (where only one person is typing and the other person is not [for me its akin to being dry-humped by a dog. no joy and you just want it to go away]) sure you can visually see it but still keep up the text .. only type when you see a reaction from the other person. (For me its important to note. Telling me how i react is a quick way to make me bored. That is the same with many people. Also not giving me a chance to type a reaction[which can get detailed] will make me frustrated a little.)
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I agree with you kitten, it is a mutual thing so both have to participate or it will get boring.
When we write our erotic stories here at the forum I'm a bit more lenient since the posts are usually longer and there's more time in between them. If someone wants to write me into things a little or some minor reaction from me which would be natural I'm fine with it but then that's different from real time descriptive play.
Anyway it all depends on your partner, with some descriptive play isn't the thing so you have to play in another way which can still be fun imo... well as long as they're not mute or just wham, bang thank you mam.
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very good point kitten!
kudos to you. thx for bringing it up
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np :)
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mmm saying never ever... to burst typing..
Disagree,... and know a number of partners who would disagree. I t doesn't appeal to everyone,... but there are types of play,.. levels of play where pushing the tempo,.. the pace,... intensity of the actions can be best manipulated by a flurry of burst typing. That is totally dependent on the bonds and connections that 2 players have. Familiarity of play allows adaption in the course of chat exchange and reactions and does allow for a incorporating some assumption of reaction.
The rule should be never presume the reaction until you know,... absolutely know your partners reactions
It is important to maintain connection of reactions, expressing that into the flow of the chat. I f they are too silent, I simply weave a playful question into the actions. Test the responses, the excitement level. Honestly if they are busy with themselves... I'll pick it up,... and carry on the erotic text pressing on while they indulge.
just my A$0.02
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While I think Kitten is right, I also get what Bear is saying.
So perhaps refining the idea to, both partners should be just that, partners in what is happening.
Even IRL you will have times when you just have your partner lay back and you pleasure them. It's not bad, it's not greedy, but when it becomes the norm it quickly becomes dull.
When you factor text in sometimes the partner's reactions is really necessary to what you are typing.
In both cases it's when it goes too far it becomes a problem.
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Yes, both of you are right and I agree with you Janine, it all depends on the partners.
I think Bears way of trying out what can be assumed or not seems the best way if you want to do that, it's all about finding the balance in which both are comfortable.
While meeting a new partner I would say it's better to let both speak for themselves until you know each other better... otherwise it can definitely turn into a wtf experience.
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While I think Kitten is right, I also get what Bear is saying.
So perhaps refining the idea to, both partners should be just that, partners in what is happening.
Even IRL you will have times when you just have your partner lay back and you pleasure them. It's not bad, it's not greedy, but when it becomes the norm it quickly becomes dull.
When you factor text in sometimes the partner's reactions is really necessary to what you are typing.
In both cases it's when it goes too far it becomes a problem.
There, is the absolute to the truth here in this...
@Adera... your last sentence is the important one... I had to giggle when I suddenly thought of a partner with who I had orgasmed... pushing on to another pose... she knew how old I was... but treated me like I was an 18 year old locked into a perpetual hard on...
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~snip~... treated me like I was an 18 year old locked into a perpetual hard on...
I can understand her confusion... ;D
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She'll have to learn to be patient with the gents and if she wants it that fast again she should consider giving a helping hand... and tongue. :)
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~snip~... treated me like I was an 18 year old locked into a perpetual hard on...
I can understand her confusion... ;D
mmm :P
The spirit is 18, just takes the body a few minutes to kick into gear and catch back up... I DO enjoy tasting the fruits of my labor in the meantime though.
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I am not saying what the partner does is not important. All I am saying with burst typing .. is that its less interesting if it occurs especially if its like this.
"I lick you"
"You orgasm"
That is just too sad. There is a point when ever roleplaying that people should sync up as a pace with the person they are playing. That being said I am conveying for me that is less then interesting. In a first meet you shouldn't be doing it anyway you don't know what the other person is like.
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kitten,.. you are being kind describing those lines as sad..
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I know I am being kind... I am not mean by nature ;)
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Being way too sweet there...
At that point it becomes a cold sympathy fuck... I would lose total interest in the session.
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Either I just don't find the right people on there or they don't get on much when I am lol. It sure would be nice to have more of those kind of chats, for I hate short little ones. I love being occupied for hours or at least, as long as I can without real life getting in the way.
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@ sexilicious a Very warm welcome to the forum sweetie. Hope you'll enjoy our little group and looking forward to your posts..
There are only so many gems in AChat, in my case girls (and 2 wonderful shemale :) a big kiss to you both), and they are not easy to find. People that have the imagination, descriptive skills and stamina to start an rp and last until the end. Even if it is spread out over several meetings.
Most people in the game are imaginary porn directors, shooting their own movie, focussing on the graphics instead of the person sharing the moment. The level of human interest is pathetically low, though I probably have a completely different view on AChat as they do. I am bothered by those kind of talks, while the example below is more interesting as the average approach I get:
"I lick you"
"You orgasm"
My example:
her: Hi
me: hello ... (whatever her name is, unless it is something: stickitinmycunt)
her: hw r u (the stupid abreviations are an immediate turn off)
me: I am fine, thank you. how are you?
her: Ím good
end of conversation...
I get this 9 out of ten times and this annoyes me even more. Only once in a very little while I am approached in an original way, the person on the other side really maqking an effort to get me interested. Those moments I cherish and make the game worth the while...
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Yeah I know Tight lol seems I get the same form of greeting on my end except normally after how are you it is normally want a room or fuck or something like that. Which we still need to finish our cabin roleplay when we both have the time. Thanks for the warm welcome :) thinking of starting one here soon for christmas time hehe but it won't be the best i'm sure
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Being way too sweet there...
At that point it becomes a cold sympathy fuck... I would lose total interest in the session.
I actually did loose interest.
Either I just don't find the right people on there or they don't get on much when I am lol. It sure would be nice to have more of those kind of chats, for I hate short little ones. I love being occupied for hours or at least, as long as I can without real life getting in the way.
Longer is usually better but there are just some people out there (which is reasonable) that do not have a grasp of the english language(or which ever language is used for typing) or the idea on how to roleplay and make it enjoyable.
her: Hi
me: hello ... (whatever her name is, unless it is something: stickitinmycunt)
her: hw r u (the stupid abreviations are an immediate turn off)
me: I am fine, thank you. how are you?
her: Ím good
end of conversation...
I get this 9 out of ten times and this annoyes me even more. Only once in a very little while I am approached in an original way, the person on the other side really maqking an effort to get me interested. Those moments I cherish and make the game worth the while...
I agree the thing with many people on here is that they are more interested in their own pleasure rather then making it mutual. Its very very sad that they are the opposite is far more fun.
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Well if that is all they offer then highly unlikely they wold succeed in RP.
Please try to keep the thread to pertinent points of descriptive RP and not lobby chat.
Well I will have to experiment with the form of my own responses over the weekend kitten' . One thing I know of is that when the intensity of action dictates quick and frantic action, trying to type too lengthy a response dampens the action. That response you laid out is rather a dull,... unimaginative and presumptuous of response.
When I get a moment.. and in a right frame of mood, I'll set an example of a burst out. (and time it so you understand how quick it jumps at you) .
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Well if that is all they offer then highly unlikely they wold succeed in RP.
Please try to keep the thread to pertinent points of descriptive RP and not lobby chat.
Well I will have to experiment with the form of my own responses over the weekend kitten' . One thing I know of is that when the intensity of action dictates quick and frantic action, trying to type too lengthy a response dampens the action. That response you laid out is rather a dull,... unimaginative and presumptuous of response.
When I get a moment.. and in a right frame of mood, I'll set an example of a burst out. (and time it so you understand how quick it jumps at you) .
Correct me if I am wrong Bear but what not to do .. is just as pertinent as what to do when it comes to doing something. If you object to my responses that is your prerogative but doesn't negate their validity.
Clearly you have missed my previous posts where i do point out there is a point where burst typing is valid but that is when both people are mutually doing it. Let me be very clear ... in simple terms I agree with you on this point as intensity changes the actions can speed up.
Another thing is this I have encounter people claiming they can speak english when they can clearly only speak broken english. I doubt i am the sole example of that case. There is no such thing as presumption if it is out of experience of that case. It makes it a tested fact but only applicable to the cases that have been encountered. Much the same applies to the roleplaying element but its a question of experience and thinking in those terms.
Your mood is little concern to me do what you will Bear I will read it then. (especially as I already understood your principle you are presenting it would be wasting our mutual time)
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who knows what the exact definition of role play is?
is it when two people act out being someone else altogether? or two people just go on a typed adventure and enjoy being in the story together?
or is it both of these things? thx for the input in advance...
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mmmh, there isn't a right answer, but i think it stay in the middle. correct me if i'm wrong
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I think that the people involved define it. I just think that the idea of this guide is that like most things a partner who doesn't really try isn't going to make the experience very enjoyable.
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exactly
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As a regular role player, this topic should be posted in guidelines for new users. Its informative and gives great tips and ideas to use. Like most on first joining here the "kid in the sweetshop" phase soon wanes and erotic descriptive brain sex in the form of role playing is much more exciting and satisfying.
Finding a like minded partner is just fabulous. Hehe.
Its always nice to learn from other role players too, in the form of new words & descriptions and ideas.
Virtual dating is good too. mmm Happy happy memories . :)
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Hello all kinds peoples of the Dreamworld's Forum
As I consider myself a Role-Player ( maybe after reading me you will tell me I am not after all.) I read this topic.
First of all I want to put my greetings to Kaileen for the work did.
Second I may say that I don't practice "Descriptive Role-Play" :-\
I mean, I use some parts of what could be called "Descriptive Role Play"
So may I give my point of view about what Role-Play is for me ?
I must said too that I am not a Role-Playing Gamer , so what I put in the word "Role-Play" may be not the same
that a one who is more accustomed with the concept.
The Role
"I am who I am, my garments don't make me who I am not!"
I Feel not that our Avatar are just Barbie© Dolls to play with, trying all poses one by one .
When I create my first Avatar ( I got two ) I create a personallity very close to what I actually was ( and ..am, but less often )
My Avatar is not Me, but She represent an idealized me.
So the connection between this Avatar of mine and my real self is very close, intimate and strong.
When I create my second Avatar, I put more distance from what I am, I created her with What I wished to be
not just "physically" Displayed ( Girl, blue hair ... for aspect I chooe Hatsune Miku as model for I really like this character )
but also I project a way of acting, and "thinking" that is different for what I am.
So I may call my second Avatar a "Role"
Of course I may endorse some fantasies ( being the Daddy's little girl, the maid ( And I got the clothes for this hi hi hi :P ) , a nurse ... )
But, for me, this is just a matter of chatting, because once in room, the possibilities are fixed by the DreamWorld.
So even "Role-Playing" ( For exemple) a Maid, finaly the display is the same ( a Blow job for exemple ) than if Role-playing no role at all.
In spite of chatting "Ohhhh I have to clean those mark here" before performing the action.
So for me the "Role" is really related to the Avatar's Creation.
I was a slave, and I now want to feel again some of the thrillings, so my "Role" is a Slave with my first personality's Avatar
I want to express my little girl side , so my "Role" is an young, blue haired sassy girl with my second personality's Avatar
How we appear is what our partner may cling to feed his desires
For me it is kind of fixed, but that is my way because I put much of myself in my Avatars.
I may think that for people who please changing Roles ( that I may understand very well ) the changes must be displayed
changing of clothes, even changing of the Avatars caracteristics ...
The Actions
"Don't talk bro! Act!!"
For me, the actions that are just ... possibles, are the one allowed by the poses and the actions of the DreamWorld.
describing other actions in the chat don't warm my pleasure
*I knock on the door* mean nothing for me ( sorry ) for before rooming, it is really nat adequate, and in room ... well it is too late.
So our possibilities of actions are restricted, that is true
But also the restriction is also what could fuel our imagination.
*put two finger into your little pink hole, and shake them into your inner warmth* May not be very fun for me if not displayed in the "Erotic spanking" poses , BUT, I may imagine those details if freally warmed and lustfull from my partner.
For me, the really good way to act in the Dreamworld is the concatenation of poses and actions.
And also something very important for me is the respect for the reality ( not fully of course ). Something very extravagant for me are
for exemple men who cum gallons of sperm!
In reality it is very hard for me to ... cum ... even twice a row without rest, for sure I do more ::) into the DreamWorld, but asking me
to cumming always and every ten second kill the magic.
Same for pain ... my ! I had been a real slut during a perio of my life, but been ... fucked as hell during hours lead to pain.
Some pain are sexy of course, but not all ...
The Talks
"Don't speak your mouth's full!!"
For sure, for me dialogues and chats are very important, it is the point that complementary to the actions fuel all my desires and lust, and give me the pleasures and enjoyement.
Very like in real life, asking for changes of poses ( "May I take care of you darling" --> Pampered Pose ) may be very pleasant ( for me )
The match with situation could also be nice, I may not "speaking" if performing a Blow job, If I want to, It is mostly possible to change action for
freeing the mouth. Or wait for changes.
Whispers and growls can be displayed in thoses positions I guess ... I do ...
And it is a good feedback for your partner.
"Speaking" is, I agree a lot the main fonction of the room's chatbox, so I also agree that words may be directly writen in the chatbox.
I myself write noises I may "make" between "**" ... *slurp* is a classic :P
The Feelings
"You Dream or what?"
Feelings are very intimate things, for me it have not to be displayed. Some " physical Manifestation" may occur sometime
I put them also between "**" ( *blushing* ) but I agree that's the same sign I use for noises too
In fact I use ** for everything that is not taling, some other peoples may use other signs, but I feel those manifestation of feelings may
be clearly shown to difference them from talking.
The Exitment Bar
"Ohhhh you turn red!"
Well ... we got the option, and the bar lead premium users to climax.
I use the exitation bar a lot. I feel it is a very nice feed back for my partner, and I please my partner use it too.
Even free user may use the Bar!! even that they can't climax ... it is still a very nice display of how please we are.
Well for all those who had the courage of read me
I may conclude that My Role Play is not "Descriptive" but more a way to act respectfully with what I put of myself into my Avatars.
I think there is no Guide to have a great enjoyement in the DreamWorld, it is a matter of the moment's magic.
Good Will, attentions, cares, will improve I think our experience...
My intention was just to explain how I see the way of acting.
It was NOT to said it is the "Good way to act" at all; I hope you find some hints and ideas as I got some from Kaileen's post
( who I thanks a lot for her concern upon the DreamWorld and all of the wonderfull idea she have )
It is just how I fell ... sorry if I bother you.
Please accept my best humbly regards, and thanks for reading me.
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Giving this a bump, so it doesnt get lost in the archives. Its useful for old and new alike :)
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Bumping up, reasons as above.
Tight, could this be kept near the top, I think it contains really useful & helpful tips for role players & those that are trying it out for the first time.
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Maybe had some natural talent but when I first started it was like a lot of mmmmmmm and one sentence roleplays. Doing it on a regular basis with some good roleplayers has helped me improve and make the mind even dirtier hehe. Think it also helped when i finally did it in real ::) once i was quite comfortable after doing it a couple times.
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I know what you mean the keyboard is a scary place when you have it in your mind what you want to say and then your faced with all them keys.
I was the same when I first started (ask sexi) but it does get easier trust me .
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I'm really bad at role play. I v done it few time. I seem to be to focus on what is the right thing to say and weather or not its acceptable so I don't offend my partner. this lead me with blank head and I end get really embarrassed.
so I really don't care much for role play in general. I rather be me in the room, them a cheese or abusive persona. (not say all role play like that)
so I ten to sick with a very simple role play that don't take me out of who I am.
This could come from lack of experience. I hate telling my partner I suck at something. It make me inadequate.
Like said In one my post before On A chat I'm very shy. I prefer if someone talk to me rather I talk to them.
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I have been told I am very good at roleplay. A free tip is just react if they don't like it (most will tell you) or they will just ignore what is being said if they are more interested in just moving forward.
The problem is alot of people just do not understand that roleplaying is an action/reaction thing. Kingdustin its better if you just go with whats natural for you in roleplay as opposed to doing something thats completely wrong for you. (Mainly because you will like anyone get bored quicker)
Instead of saying that you suck at something just say your a little inexperienced at it so if they could be a little obvious with any clues on what they want it would be helpful. Because your willing to ensure you both enjoy it.
I prefer a conversation back and forth rather then one side talking. It quickly gets a tad dull. After all not everyone likes to direct all conversations about themselves. Some of us actually understand that in a conversation there is more then one person.
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Good idea jcm - perhaps we move this thread or give a hint to it in Forum news
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What about to stick it in the top of the page!? it's a good hint even for people who want to join in the B&G or the Ice House....
The problem is alot of people just do not understand that roleplaying is an action/reaction thing. Kingdustin its better if you just go with whats natural for you in roleplay as opposed to doing something thats completely wrong for you. (Mainly because you will like anyone get bored quicker)
Instead of saying that you suck at something just say your a little inexperienced at it so if they could be a little obvious with any clues on what they want it would be helpful. Because your willing to ensure you both enjoy it.
Kitten, i agree with you.....the best thing in RP is to be natural and not force yourself in something you are not good: you can try so many times, but if you try to play a role where you are not good (try to play as dom, when you are not inclined in ti isn't easy), just turn your RP worst!
Of course, here we have another good problem....different languages! not all the users here are pretty good with english cause it's not their born language and this, lot of time, can create a barrier in RP.
Those things must be pondered well before to start an RP.....welll, there are exception and sometimes an RP start just for case....and they can turn to something good, cause they run naturally.....or this is what i have experiment here during this year and half!
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Try you to tap on touchscreen keyboard with sticky fingers :(
By the way I've liked the guide, very well written. I usually do really simple RPs, with just roles and not background story. I think is a good way for have fun without the challenge of the RP :P
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Stray, why your fnger are sticky!? ::)
btw....the background can be a nice add to an RP, trust me! it can be something you use just to start it and creat a certain atmosphereand it help you to enter in your role: i'll remember i had play a "blackmail" RP few months later i'd join AChat and a little of background was really in need that time.....others, all can start just from an idea, then it can fire up well if you and yor partner hae a good immagination!
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Stray, why your fnger are sticky!? ::)
Because I'm an horny girl who likes play with herself.
Ops, too rude.. lol
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Stray, why your fnger are sticky!? ::)
Because I'm an horny girl who likes play with herself.
Ops, too rude.. lol
eh eh......i know that and i was joking, my friend! :P
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Do you need someone to lick those fingers for you Stray?
;D
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Oh, that's a good idea :P
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I have not "role played" here yet. I have done a lot of "cybering" with a lot of men. And me and my Lion have thrown a twist into it to be kinky, but no roleplay.
Role play to me is a story, an elaborate story, set in a different time and place. It is two authors working on the same script, and they can do that because they click.
Me and Claire had that. I also had my very own Lord. He was good. We did this wonderful medieval story that was more like a Harlequin romance. We had sex scenes but they were NOT the core of it. As we built the relationship between the Lord and the gypsy we were building a relationship between us.
I guess my point is, you have to have a connection with someone, just like real life. You do a lot of chatting outside roleplay. You are willing to abandon your storyline should they want to go in another direction and you "Play" your character.
It is writting and it's acting all rolled into one.
And the best are rare...because it takes 2 to Tango.
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Andrea, it can be how you said......you need a connection between two people for roleplay, but let me say this is your way to role play! i can swear you it happend to me in past to start a roleplay about teacher and student just cause me and my first spouse here (who left AChat, and i really hope he's fine!) were talking about the outfit i was wearing and how a friend of mine call it: the bondage school girl! lol! and trust me.....we continue with that for two or three evening! :P
Role play can be programmed well or, sometimes, pure instinct.......and both can be great! and just to make you know....my post in the B&G and the few in the Ice House are not programmed before...eccept when we had Tight's goodbye party!
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I am pretty new at all this but can really get into the play when there is a connection.
A willing apprentice who will take on the task with passion.
:)
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old_goat, before joining AChat i had never role play, so i this all was new for me too! i have to say, all the RPG i had play had help me to figure out how to write a story and create a back ground, plus, my mind is like an erupting vulcan, so........eh eh!
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IMHO I believe it a mistake to think that RP needs to be an elaborate story, I feel it can be just as much a simple setup of responding with another to a particular environment. Much as Stray has presented.
The next step or tier in my mind is where one has created a personal space of play. Owning a room so to say, and creating it as a fantasy spot filled with a personal fabricated environment.
ex: I use to use the city room as my pentehouse, complete with dining room, a kitchen, a sunken living room with a fireplace, and large glass coffee table. Even now, Brandy and I have a room which we call home,... it is personal and no other is invited to go there.
Situational Date RP is the nest phase in my order. Create a date,... make it elaborate and a bit beyond the normal lines of straight sex. Example: I setup a date with a friend for a weekend in San Francisco, using my knowledge of the city to share on a downtown walking tour. It was a lot of fun sharing points of interests with my friend and gave her a chance to get a description of the types of shops about a core area I use to stay in. When we found an Scottish/Irsih heritage store, things got interesting, especially when I started trying on kilts ;)
up to this point you are staying being yourself... responding to different scenarios... but still playing yourself.
Taking that next step is a challenge playing as a character. you might keep it simple to start with, put yourself into simple situational roles. 2 office co-workers,..., housewife and handyman. A police officer...
When you find a compatible partner then you may attempt something more elaborate. A story of substance which does not at first deal with a more complex story. Weave it together, spontaneously towards that payoff (the sexual encounter)
Doing so you might find yourself able to chain a deeper story line:
example: A partner and I set up a scenario involving an office party. There was an elaborate weave of distracting her husband, a boss who was horny for his subordinates wife... a hot office sex scene. We chained that further... the co-worker taking the wife and her drunk husband home, screwing in the living room while he was passed out on the couch. Another scene where I had spent the night instead of going home, and she slipped into the guest room, the following morning in the kitchen stealing a moment while breakfast is cooking and is distracted with his morning preparation, the later a blackmail attempt... the office sex was caught on video and the boss attempted to extort favors from the wife...
I think that immersion into a total fabricated world as Momma Andrea describes is the high end of such play. Can you create a fantasy world, elaborate enough to chain events and characters throughout. To me it is the high end of RP.
We are chained only by our limits of imagination, free it and it will take you to some marvelous experiences.
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Yup, RP is not necessarily elaborate.
I usually do the part of the slut and the other one does the master or just the rude boy who use me.
We have those roles but we don't have a real background story, or we have, but is something really simple. Like:
The teacher and the student who needs some "lesson", we start talking about how starts the action, and after that we just keep our roles without improving the story.
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When I role play I like to be like the words to the song by Ides Of March .
"I'm your vehicle, baby
I'll take you anywhere you wanna go
I'm your vehicle, woman"
That begs the question.
Where does she want to go.
I want to take her mood and run with it.
At times into dark places she does not expect.
Only to discover something new and wonderful about life.
Life and what it means to be swept up in a dream with another.
Another person who is living the same dream with you and connecting with you on some level.
Yes. Play the game. Sometimes it is great. Sometimes it hurts.
That's life.
:)
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First hook up would just be cybering for me, nothing elaborate. I would have to see if my partner had the skills.
And then there would be many more hook ups before we got into an elaborate story.
But the old "Next door neighbor" or "Plumber looking at my pipes" or "Im your son's friend" None of those do it for me anymore...if they ever did.
even in a bdsm role play, there better be a reason I am in this dungeon wearing next to nothing.
Back story is very important to me.
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Bear said almost everything i think about it too. RP is more than black/white but a large area.
You just need two people able to write. The only limit is your own imagination. Some really hot rp started in the chat room and continued in room with a big story behind, leasting for hours. And sometimes it is just a quickie.
You even don't need the room for it, i just like the actions inside.
Just a hint: If you have a good idea give your partner time to get his ideas too. We are collecting ideas in this thread:
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,457.0.html
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Even now, Brandy and I have a room which we call home,... it is personal and no other is invited to go there.
We are chained only by our limits of imagination, free it and it will take you to some marvelous experiences.
Oh baby, I'm home ............ :P
The art of a good rp is to intertwine what you know, virtual dating at its best. I prefer staying as me, my RP, tends to be the things surrounding and allowing you each to inspire the other.
I have had wonderful dates of weekends away , yet still have a home to return to.. a RP in a RP, using your RL experiences as well as the little topics in Forum village.
Of course, you can RP being another , as a naughty spouse with your partner... that's fun too ::)
Let loose your imagination and live your fantasy dream ;)
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I love to RP, for me it makes this game so much better. It's just hard with a lot of the guys on here. Most just want a quick fuck and that's it. The idea of building up a good story that grows into a great RP seems beyond them. Damn and I really like it on here."
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Imagination RP is so amazing and special
To me I need to have deep feeling's if I don't have
It will not mean any thing I got to feel it .
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I would rp, if i fount the right person to do it with, and given time I could come up with something of worth, but for me, I find typing hard, so in a virtual sex environment I have to focus on either the sex or the typing so if my focus shifts to what I am trying to type during a sceene, it dose not mean that I have lost interest in the action. Or by contrast if I stop typing and focus on the animations, it does not mean that I have lost interest in the story. :)
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everyone should read these posts and descriptions ... whether rping for a story, or just making the casual hook up better than watching the poses!
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Here are collected ideas for RP:
Adult Game AChat > Discussions about sex > Erotic Stories > RP-suggestions Database
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1502.0.html