Getting started

[AZNLoverV]

So what do I need to buy?  what poses are recommended?  What accessories or looks or tattoos?  If someone else has the pose, do I also have to own the pose to use it or how does it work?  How do I change the look/face of my male character?

[Janine Dee]

Okay, on the wardrobe/faces/tats... the character editor stuff... it's all what you think you might like to "wear" at some point (technically you "wear" faces). There is really no right or wrong, and there will be some stuff you buy that you find you'll never want to wear again (but I think we all have those outfits in our real life closets as well).

As far as positions... I'm a lesbian so I bought all FF, and FFF.

A good rule of thumb is that if you want to try it you should buy it. While only one partner NEEDS to have it if your interested in it it's considered courteous to have it available rather then asking around for someone else who has it.

But really it's all to your personal preferences.

[Lover]

Did you ask someone to show you all poses? What do you like? What do you want to try? And here in this forum you will find many poses are talked about, so maybe you get a first view.

[PattyR]

Not all of ud will vplunteer,  but some of us will take the time  to show you the poses.  Sometimes you just have to ask.  If you get a few no's its ok.  Eventually someone will say yes.....

[Janine Dee]

The problem with that is a common line runs along the lines of "Hi I'm new here..." At which point I would start a spiel on how AChat works (this was before the User made FAQ, now I point them to that) then they would unh huh, and then ask me to start showing poses... and I had a distinct feel that it was all just to get me to fuck them.

So that opening COULD get some blow back because of people abusing it.

[Adera]

Feels like I get that "Hi, I'm new here..." line everytime I log on, I only care when its someone who actually chats with me.

[christinak]

Ok, as long as we are on the subject of what to buy when you are new.  For the guys at least, please invest in a new shirt.  For me at I'd rather you dump that aweful blue sweater. Yall all look the same lol.  Just sayin.

[Adera]

Yeah new shirts is a really good investment for the guys and to get a look that is abit unique.

[Lover]

We didn't get new shirts for a very long time...

Next hint: Take off your socks in room

[Adera]

For guys at least, I think my socks looks quite cute. But it feels far more sexy to wear stockings.

[Lover]

My hint was just for guys - I thought this was clear

Stockings are hot - if girls or shemales are wearing them

[TightFit74]

Stockings, garterbelt. I was sold a long time ago...

[Unhealer]

guys dont need to buy out the entire wardrobe like a lot of chicks do, save money for the poses, dont bother with the 3some poses (its rare to find people who actually want to do 3some and even then theres like 30$ worth of poses, half of which are 3 people masturbating)

[TightFit74]

Buying the whole wardrobe is an option for guys. But to be honest, the choice is so limited and so many things are too much alike, that I would have to agree. I do want more male clothes, as has been discussed at length before. When will they come A-team?

[Lover]

To be honest, they gave us new clothes. But not for me - Like Tight said, we discussed this again and again, but almost none of our wishes have been fulfilled.
So, yes, they gave us new dresses. But no, not what we asked for.