Perhaps when we are on such a topic and feel the need/desire to post something off-topic, we could just post "see my post at Blues House"?
Good idea

Does it affect other people like this? tell all please!
Of course it does. AChat is a virtual world with one main theme: sex (I know, not for all and I agree, in between sex is not the most important reason I'm here but it's still important).
If you wanna have good sex (no, if you wanna sex that makes you feeling
wwwwooooooooooowwwww)
you have to give a lot of yourself, have to let yourself fall down, have to be in a special mood.
Yes, in some way I "love" the person I'm in room with. It's not the love I feel to my real partner, it's kind of love between 2 persons being very close, giving and taking good vibrations.
But you have to know most of your room partners go their own way after. That's ok, so it is. I found some very nice people, in room and here in forum, that I really like.
With love from Lover