Sisterhood of = Geisha (Tomoeko) – Negative Experiences Only (Admin Review)

heloo i have had my share of trouble abuse and hurrasment from tomkoeko and the giesha group they scream yell at me about my evil role play that being in a Z house is made me evil and dark and that i am a witch they gon as far to to follow around amsterdamn yeling that i should leave the evil houses and then i will be clean again
they talkeed to people i am talking to i gnore them these people are tomoeko /stefan01 /strawberry/camern2010/kittymia also known as mia555 /rapedslutlea /feyasexslave these people abuse verbley hurrass ven as ghost bupping circling standing between me and people that are tring to tal to me al the while tell them i am a mean bitch adsar witch aevil dark soul because i an a cultis because i jioned a houyse run people off we have l;ess people in amsterdamn because the do not want to be bothered by this few abusers

-My experience with Tomoeko (long-term psychological manipulation)

I am writing this as a former player returning to share my experience.

My name is Lizzy_Kitty. Many users may recognize me by this name, especially those directly involved in my experience, such as Tomoeko, Starfire, and Tomoeko’s supposed Korean wife “Oyun”. All mentioned users have AChat accounts, and what I describe below is supported by chat logs and witnesses.

When I first started playing, I was inexperienced, naive, and trusting. I was the perfect target for manipulation. Tomoeko positioned herself as a guide and mentor and slowly imposed a distorted worldview on me, particularly about love and relationships. She repeatedly stated that love requires suffering, sacrifice, and even dying if necessary for the person you love.

This deeply affected me. I suffered emotionally, cried frequently, and seriously considered leaving the game. Eventually, I did leave for a time to focus on my real life and family.

-Emotional manipulation and projection

Tomoeko constantly projected herself onto me. She projected her own infidelity and behavior onto my personal life, repeatedly telling me that I would eventually “follow my heart” and cheat on my girlfriend at the time (now my ex), just as she had done.

She also created false emotional closeness by calling me “Sister,” a term she appears to use with many people to manufacture trust and emotional dependency. At the time, I believed I was genuinely valued.

-Confessions about her wife “Oyun” and Starfire

While we were friends, Tomoeko confessed multiple times that she had a wife from Korea named Oyun, whom I personally met in “City”.

Tomoeko described Oyun as lonely, depressed, and emotionally fragile. She explicitly told me that Oyun was capable of commiting suicide if Tomoeko ever left her. At the same time, Tomoeko claimed that she herself was a lonely woman from Japan and that Oyun and her “daughter” Starfire were the only reasons she was still alive.

Starfire was another user closely tied to Tomoeko. Tomoeko admitted to me that she had been cheating on Oyun with Starfire for a long time. This cheating was disguised publicly as “Mother’s love,” including dancing together and going into private rooms. Given the context Tomoeko herself provided, this implies indirect incest roleplay.

Tomoeko further confessed that she and Starfire were secretly married, and that ClaraWhite was the person who performed the marriage. She told me that ClaraWhite and I were the only people who knew this at the time.

Additionally, Tomoeko repeatedly asked me for advice on how to convince Oyun to participate in threesomes with Tomoeko and Starfire. This appeared to be an attempt to normalize the situation and reduce guilt about cheating, while making Oyun aware of Tomoeko and Starfire’s relationship without knowing it had already been happening for a long time, hiding the fact that the relationship with Starfire had already existed.

-Attempted use of me to harass another player

Tomoeko consistently used people for her own benefit and showed no concern for the damage caused to others. This became undeniable when she attempted to use me to harass another user, Kylie16.

She told me that Kylie16 was trying to seduce Starfire and “steal her away.” In a jealous episode, Tomoeko instructed me and several other users, including Greengirl12, to harass Kylie16.

This was the moment I fully realized the manipulation. I refused to participate, and once Tomoeko lost control over me—someone who knew about her deception—she became hostile and revealed her true behavior.

-Public narrative manipulation

Few days after I stopped being Tomoeko’s victim and cut ties with her, Tomoeko went to the City and happily announced that she, Starfire and Oyun “Happily made love”. This may have been out of fear that I, Lizzy_Kitty, would reveal the truth about her to everyone, forcing her to convince Oyun at all costs and announce it publicly before I could speak.

(This is something I never did until now, because even though I am not Japanese like Tomoeko, I have more honor than she does.)

-Harassment of new players and defamation

Tomoeko frequently excuses explicit insults, death threats, and sustained harassment of new players by claiming she is “educating” or “teaching” them how to play. Multiple friends of mine who were new players were targeted in this way, and I personally asked Tomoeko to stop harassing them.

She also spreads false accusations against players she dislikes. One example is benno12, whom she targeted by repeatedly copying and pasting the same message to multiple users, falsely accusing him of inviting girls to private rooms without consent.

-Current situation

At present, Tomoeko is reportedly “married” to Julie_M. The Korean wife Oyun, whom Tomoeko herself described as emotionally dependent and suicidal if abandoned, appears to have been completely discarded and forgoten.

-Final statement

I am sharing this now because the pattern is clear: long-term psychological manipulation, projection, coercion, use of others for harassment, and repeated emotional abuse, particularly toward new or vulnerable players.

Everything described here can be supported by chat logs and witnesses. I am not writing this out of revenge, but because this behavior is harmful and has affected multiple players over a long period of time.

i must correct a infaction in the statement of tomoeko i am not a heleader in echo ouse
i an the keader of my own house am leaeder of house chezclaude so tomokoeko once again does not know what she is talking bout
and jule_m thioughht it was her placce to come tell me i should not be post inthis form

Wow, what a circus.
Admins have all the logs. stop whining, like somebody cares.

Hello everyone,
I don’t understand this tension and it saddens me.
I dream of a world where everyone has their place.
I am part of the Zodiac House, I know Echo and I know Tomoeko.
I am for peace and I believe in the power of dialogue between everyone.
I don’t like cliques because when you only talk to people who think the same way, you end up hating those who think differently. Whereas talking with people who think differently softens our convictions, even if we keep them. And we realize that deep down, all human beings are seeking happiness.
I think everyone has the right to like or not like someone. But this should remain a personal opinion. That is why I want to share my testimony about Tomoeko, whom I do not recognize in the descriptions written here. I was part of the Maison Chez Claude and I enjoyed the company of the Maison des Geishas, which Tomo ran along with Echo. Tomoeko never asked me to join her House and leave Chez Claude. She always accepted me as I was, with kindness and tenderness. I never heard her harassing other players or arguing with anyone. On the contrary, she always spoke of universal love and great compassion.
Echo, I know you less, but I have no grievances against you either, except that if you don’t like Tomoeko, that’s your right, but asking for her to be banned seems extreme to me. In any case, I find it hard to imagine Tomoeko going around bothering players and saying mean things.
War and hatred are everywhere in the real world. Let’s build a better world in this game of love.

• This reply was modified 4 days, 18 hours ago by MeloDieS.

Hello, I am very shocked by the comments made about Sisterhood and Tomoeko. From my own experience, they are loving, respectful, and helpful people, especially to new players. They are very kind people, and all these accusations are, of course, lies. They are the result of a conflict stemming from jealousy and past relationships. From my experience playing the game, from what I’ve seen and read in the in-game chats, all the people who are now giving negative opinions about Tomoeko and her friends, like Echo and her friends, are the very accusers I’ve seen with my own eyes. They bring their share of problems and frustrations to the game. They do exactly what they accuse others of: lies, insults, etc., always coming to disturb our peace when we’re quietly chatting in our own corner. We never go to their group’s meeting area; we stay in our own corner. All these people, however, who conveniently give negative opinions, come… They’re in our corner, bringing their problems, disrupting our game, spending hours harassing us… so yes, as some players say, it’s really sad and pathetic… that some players waste their gaming time trolling and disrupting other players, all because their gaming experience has become nothing but disappointment and boredom.