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April 23, 2011 at 7:08 pm #49943
Bear
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Is it common practice?… Well I would say there are many who do push the issue, premium members besides free. The other side of the coin there are many like you and myself who don't and we are not alone in that stance…

But such matter truly is not limited to this website.. and she needs to understand the power of the ignore button. Banner the issue,.. with a threat of ignore and just do it, focus on her circle of friends who enjoy her company and have fun.
June 7, 2011 at 2:43 pm #49944
islandsun
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You have to do and feel whats right for you !

I have chosen a few of my friends to see my smile !
Nothing perverted I would never compromise < hope thats right word < myself.
I`m trying to uplaod some of my wood working to show some friends my creative work , that I`m proud of !
June 8, 2011 at 5:18 pm #49945
Ardeur
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The requests are relatively common, I get them too every time I log in. However, I choose to keep my private “analog” life separate from my private “digital” life here. Discretion can prevent a lot of ill will. Not everybody is open minded enough to accept here and there are different. If you give someone you barely know your info, you might end up with a stalker, which is never a good thing for relationships.
June 8, 2011 at 6:01 pm #49946
Adera
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The best partners are the ones that accepts you want to keep yourself anonymous here but I can understand if they ask once or twice but understands when you tell them no.

What I truly hate though is the ones that are so tactful they think asking for pics in the middle of things is a good idea… for me that really kills the mood.
June 18, 2011 at 10:40 am #49947
PseRamesses
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agree sweet adera. i allow it once, warn them tht if they should ask twice i will block them. private is private, fantasy is fantasy and if u r into pic sharing or cam sex i know i few places tht is better suited for it on the web. same thing with all other personal q´s i get like: r u a real she, how old r u, how do u look like, where do u live. well, where i live, or rather the timeline im on is rather important to know especially if u have friends on the other side of the globe on the other hand there r a few trusted persons i dont mind sharing personal stuff with but they have long ago proven themselves to be worthy of my trust and can handle info with a great deal of integrity and discretion which i greatly appreciate.
August 19, 2011 at 6:21 pm #49948
kittenlepurr
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I refuse out right. Only after i have had played many times i will even consider it. But off the bat .. I always say no. Because ultimately there is a little doubt in knowing who you are talking to.

If they push the issue i simply ignore them.
November 23, 2011 at 8:18 am #49949
Fantasy
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was very happy to see this here. had no idea so many asked for such things,
appreciate all the advice
thx guys
November 23, 2011 at 8:41 am #49950
hentaiboy69
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Oh, and don't forget there are customer who trying to sell their pic for A$…….this is them choise, so i have nothing to say, but i nevver gonna ask them to send me one, that's for sure!

anyway, your friend have to think seriously about it before giving them an answer: if she have a minimum doubt about it, better answer no and (allways!) she have to know reeeeally better the people who ask for this before sending photo, it's like u wanna go and meet them in real…..a blind date, at the end!
November 23, 2011 at 12:55 pm #49951
islandsun
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I have friends that i trust and on messenger , and hotmail where i show my wood works and art ,and yes just my smiling face , wont do bad things > hey I do have some pride !

Tight is one of them !
November 23, 2011 at 3:10 pm #49952
hentaiboy69
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wood work….can i ask which tipe of work u do!?
November 23, 2011 at 7:51 pm #49953
islandsun
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I make wooden benches , swing benches, 4to5 foot light houses , detailes bird house just about anything with wood !

And I paint as well , design T shirts , business cards , i do alot or art

I have a wood shop most guys would die for !
November 23, 2011 at 8:45 pm #49954
hentaiboy69
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U are full of talent and really skilled whit hands….
November 23, 2011 at 10:58 pm #49955
islandsun
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@hentailboy69 heheheeehe very skilled w my hands and other things too !
December 25, 2011 at 3:09 am #49956
NewGurl
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I'm just now reading this post and I agree that you have to be careful. I have been approached to do cam several times on here. I had one guy seem real nice took me into a room, after 20 minutes he started harping to go on cam with him. I dont do that, finally I had to ignore him to get him to shut up.

I am so paranoid aboutit I put a piece of tape over my web cam, lol
December 25, 2011 at 7:44 am #49957
bluedenim
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I think we've all been approached in a like manner.

Like Ramesses, I'll allow them to ask just once and explain to them that I will never, ever and that if they ask again they will go on my ignore list.
Some take the hint, some get ignored.

This is a fantasy site and not a dating agency, although there are some (very) strange people on here.

Each to their own, I'm not prepared to take the risk, “silence of the lambs” in the USA?
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