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dear community. I am in here for about half a year and I really like the way we are sharing feelings, thoughts and fun with each other. I always feel deep respect on everyones privacy as I request it for me too. You all will know ... there are good times and bad times (as well as bed times) ... I think I dont have to go into details ...  But there is one thing that happened to me which I have to tell you ... you may call me childish somehow ... but I think its good to tell you to give you a warning.
For a long time ... I was thinking about entering the true nicknames of the people being referred to ... and I have to. If there was some rule against it the admins should delete them out or tell me to do so. But back to my story ... Its a warning not to trust in everybody and to always treat the people in here the way you want to be treated.

It all started a few months ago ... when a nice guy from the netherlands asked me to join him in a room. I really loved him to be so gentle and tender and we had a lot of fun. During the following weeks my friendlist grew and there were a rising amount of messages and chat request each time I logged on. Up to 10 chat request a minute I had to handle. Its not my way to ignore people who are talking to me ... so I send a small answer for everyone (btw. I am really in need of a button which tells them "sorry I am busy") . I got a rule ... when I am talking to someone already ... I wont leave him without any serious reasons. So even my friends got these busy messages. And so did the friend I was talking about in the beginning. He was very unlucky in getting about 80 percent denies from me due to my rules. Well I couldnt help it and so I told him about it. But we got nice times as well ... I learned about his gf, who is online too ... and we had a great time too. One time she told me that she had to leave to overseas for several months and she wished me to take care of her bf. And so I promised to. Unfortunately my situation referring to chatrequests didnt get better ... so he wasnt able to reach me each time he wanted to. In the end (two weeks ago) he got so angry about it that he told me he would cancel friendship. Thats his right of course ... and so I told him that I could not help it ... it would be his decision. But I knew his arguments already because he tried it that way before to get me into bed again. So I told him I could ease this and delete him as well if he wanted me to. He told me about him informing his gf by phonecall ... well ... the escalation rised and in the end ... I deleted both of them. He left and 2 minutes later she was on. She was vey angry about me deleting her and told me that she got problems with her bf. In the end ... she told me to set me on her ignore list .... and so she did. Her last words were "then go to hell".
A week ago .... I cleared my ignore list and got a chat request by him, telling me that its very important. I agreed and we went into a room. Then he told me that I would never see his gf again because she died from suicide three days ago in hospital. I cried the whole afternoon and told my real friends about it. Many of them told me not to take it too serious. Others told me that it obviously would be a trick to bring me back to him. Well I was on the ground and there was always a feeling that I might be responsible for her death as well.
One day later I got a call by a real friend who told me that she saw this girl who was told to be dead ... online.

So I recognized that I was fooled in a very very ugly way. There was no sadness in me anymore but anger and hate. I went online to talk to him and give him a chance to explain what he did. And I reached him ... when I told him to explain ... he went offline.

Unfortunately ... I cant proof it because I didnt take a screenshot when he told me about her death - which might be understandable. Thats the reason why I left outh the real nicknames up to now. People who dont believe this should not read further or ignore the names. I told all my friends who are on his contact list about this and they agreed with me to ignore him from now on.

well ... just to keep it as a warning not to trust in everybody in here ... and to take care about your own feelings and the feelings of the people you are talking to.

Never play with feelings in that way ... you may hurt people in real!

Thanks a lot to all my real friends who helped me in these days ... I really love you

Even though I thought about leaving I am still here with my real friends ... Sandra (Sandra92)

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the people I was talking about are "spidermen" and "marijke"

reconsidering my last advice ... I have to put it into perspective.

A better way to publish this kind of helpful information will be different. Thoughts about publishing it on a website are great. To play this game, you have to be online, so there is no reason for putting it into the help screen as fixed information.
However the help scrren should have a hint and a link to the main page of this guide. The main page will need links to subpages with translated information for each language we are able to create. Its important to mention on the help screen that this guide is developed and in sole responsibility of this community and not in responsibility of the developement team to prevent them from liability in case of malpractice.
There are possibilities in using this forum for publishing it. BUT ... we have to use the first thread only to release it and improve it by working it over and over again. No following threads will be useful for this.

I was thinking about its usability ... and we need a fixed account in here who is responsible for updating this kind of information. This account has to be handed over to a new responsibility when the main user is leaving.

I really like this community. Brainstorming with you is great.

hi my friends ... Its really a good idea

as an addition to no. 7 .... treat people as you want to be treated ... dont harm people ... you will both enjoy.

my thoughts are with you honey,

I was hacked too ... but I hope that I didnt loose my reputation. Nobody told me about me behaving rude. Yesterday I had a look at my A$s and found out that I made a present of 2000 A$ without knowing about it ... please check your account once again.
And for the rest of this community ... take care of your computer system referring to spyware systems or viruses ... and choose a smart password.

good luck for all of you