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Everything about sex and love / The little things (BDSM)
« on: January 22, 2015, 08:59:04 PM »
So I was looking at all the pictures in a couple of the threads and I was thinking, "Damn.  I'm the laziest sumna bitch out there, and my poor girl is deprived."  She assures me however, that it's the little things, that make our weekends intense and hot.  Those quarterly dates at the dungeon, where we get to play with All. Da. Things! are icing on our already rather tasty cake.

According to her, one of her fondest memories is of me coming home from church, telling her to strip, slipping my tie around her neck, choking her and then biting her. 

One of my most lovely times is the joy of scaring her blind in the dark.  pressed against her in the bed and the knife "snicking" open.  She squeaks real pretty!

So, what works for you when you aren't playing with the leather, latex, floggers and gags?  What simple things just flat "do it for you"?



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Personal Ads / Fuck doll seeking greedy fucker
« on: January 19, 2015, 04:19:15 PM »
While it seems unreasonable to begin a want ad with a rant, this situation is so pervasive it needs saying right up front:

/rant

I'm looking for someone who isn't going to make a big deal about the fact that my character is black.  Sadly, every single person who has spoken to me so far has mentioned it within 3 messages.  It's my skin, I can't change it, it's my skin, not my kink.  Frankly, I've been there and I've done that. I have no desire to go there again.  If fucking the black chick is your kink, please,  I beg you, move on.

Seriously, don't even mention it.  Don't ask if I'm "a  blacky chocolate princes in real".  Don't tell me, after clearly reading my comment about this not being ok,  "Sorry but your colour is a huge turn on for me."   or "Your colour isn't my kink, I just love it."  The level of offence is huge.  It makes it glaringly obvious that the clear statement that I'm not interested in that sort of thing, meant nothing to you, (which I know is a problem across many situations, not just ethnicity).  If you can't respect this simple thing, I who enjoys power exchange, now know I can't trust you with something deeper.  You will go on ignore.

Fuck my brain, not my skin colour.  Again, if this is your kink, please, there *are* like minds out there.  Go, find them and have a great time exploring the power of the socio-economic-cultural divide.  It's a powerful experience.  It is also damaging for me.  So if you need that, even a little bit.  I'm sorry but I have nothing to offer.
   

/endrant

Still here?  Wow.  :o  Thanks for your interest and patience.  :-*

NAME: Zinah
SEX:    Female
AGE:    45-55
ORIENTATION:  Heterosexual, bottom, masochist
DESCRIPTION: Black female, large tits, round ass, 5 foot 3 1/2 inches tall.  Bright smile, slight tilt to dark brown, (nearly black) eyes.  A loud and honest laugh, a loving heart and strong desire to be a sex toy.
AVAILABLE TIMES/DAYS: Sun,  Mon, Tue, Thur  6pm through 10 pm US Pacific.
AM LOOKING FOR:
I'm looking for men, who enjoy descriptive role playing scenes along the lines of sexual usage.  Yes, perhaps it's not a good idea in this day and age to encourage a story line where a man will slide up behind me, bend me over a picnic table, take what he wants from me and then leave me there gasping and whining, but yup, that's what floats my boat.  However, I want to be *his* to do that to; his toy, his pet, his fuck doll to use how, when and were he wishes, no questions asked.  If I orgasm, his largess, if I do not, his right to deny.   

I enojoy bdsm both irl and online.


Hard limits: Spitting, anal sex, urine, feces and ageplay  The very idea of someone spitting on me will end a scene.  I'm old school, spitting at or  upon someone is a level of rudeness even my lusty heart cannot overcome.  Anal sex:  Never was enjoyable irl, no matter how I tried, slow, careful or sweet.  I'm not wired for it irl, so I can't get around it in game, sorry.  Bodily waste: Work with people who can get you covered in it and you go one of two directions, love it or hate it.  i went the hate route, it's a turn off, sorry.    Ageplay:   My Daddy made it clear he no longer wanted to be my Daddy in 2013.  That wound still bleeds, nor do I ever seek to have a Daddy again.  So no, I won't call you Daddy or any version thereof.

Let's discuss what you like or want to try.

Thank you for reading,
Zinah.

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Introduce yourself / So. Hi... again.
« on: January 15, 2015, 12:13:23 AM »
I've been gone for a while.  I thought I'd run through and give it a limited time whirl to see if it's fun or not anymore.

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Share your creative ideas / The big O!
« on: March 31, 2012, 11:13:20 AM »
I noticed in a thread from last week, someone discussing the sadness that is free members cannot use the orgasm bar in the same fashion as the premium members.  Well and true.  However, even as a premium member I rarely used to orgasm meter and squirt button because orgasming with the tools in the game forced a position change that would derail the mood and actions of my scenes, thus ruining the moment.

I want for orgasming to NOT change the current pose into some pre-programmed default that has NOTHING to do with the actions that my partner and I have chosen.

What else?

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I'm starting this topic:

  • Because Lover (a Moderator) requested we do so, twice actually.
  • To collect ideas regarding how to change/improve/add more variations to the Busy button.

Be advised, this thread is not to discuss the validity of the button in it's current state, but presupposes the button needs improvement.

Game on!

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So, the "domination from behind" pose was termed 'rape' recently, and it set my teeth on edge.  In my experience, there's a significant difference between willing sexual submission (rough or soft) and rape.

I don't do rape scenes.  If I'm in the room with you, I want sex and I won't pretend differently (at least not for longer then 3 or 4 poses).  Odds are 10 - 1 that I want rough, greedy, selfish, serve your desire anyway you want, sex.  Want to throw me across the room, bounce me off the wall then fall on me and be in with no foreplay...  I love that your need drives you to extremes.  It's powerful even as I submit to your lusts. 

Will I say things like "I love it when you rape my cunt and make me cum for you?"  Yes, if I know, flat out the word won't send you over the edge.  If I think it'll freak you out, that word will never cross my lips in scene.  I'm into being controlled and helpless during sex ( My kink is OK! So is yours, don't judge!) 

Rape, at it's core is a control/power issue for the Rapist.  The victim can't stop it and No doesn't work. I know what it's like to be forced/manipulated into sex I didn't want and it wasn't violent or aggressive or painful, qualities commonly attached to the term/act of  'rape'.

I have a huge personality.  I have  overwhelming energy.  I'm very dominant in most aspects of my life.  However, if someone saw me having sex the way I enjoy it the most, they'd call the cops and my partner would be in jail, for rape.  At least  until I could convince someone I like my sex about snarling, growling domination and control and that I consented to that level of intensity.

Make me submit.  It works for me.... LOTS.

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Share your creative ideas / Ooooh Dev teeeeam!
« on: February 09, 2011, 01:58:12 PM »
Comes flying in and does one of the "newbie jobs" and brings up something that simply must have been suggested long before now.

a Do Not Disturb option for those days when you want to shop, dork with your clothes and check or send messages without the invite or chat spam.


Hey how about this grand idea a Chat Mode Only option so that folks simply can not send you invites.  This would be useful for those days when you only have a bit of time to kill and just wanna gossip with the gang and not have those damn unwanted, cold invites cluttering up your screen!

Zips back out the door, pleased with today's repeating of the obvious.

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Woman with man in AChat / Kneeling lovers
« on: February 09, 2011, 11:27:45 AM »
/rant on

OK, now seriously take out the wiggling!!  If I want to hump him or he me, please, dear gods let us choose when.  I get dizzy when I use this pose.

/rant end

(Why yes, I am shouting)

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Share your creative ideas / Random observation
« on: February 06, 2011, 09:34:08 PM »
... that I shared with my husband, (who has been giggling at my antics since yesterday)

Quote
Me:   There's no women!
Him:  What, in the game?
Me:   No, no.  On the Dev team!  It's clearly all guys who haven't looked at their girlfriends hard enough.  Sheesh!
Him:  That implies they have girlfriends, dear.
Me:   Babe!  That's just mean.... Funny though.


Why did this conversation happen? It's because the women do the damnedest things, seriously.  :o   Perhaps us ladies need a forum so we can explain these oddities in one location and give ideas about how to take the female models/actions to the next level.  Don't get me wrong, this is place is grand!!! ;D  However, somethings are seriously mood/scene breaking because it's like it came out of a bad porn rather than logical, life-like behaviors. 

I know I'd be glad to pipe up!  But I think you already caught that point.   ;D

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Share your creative ideas / Wishing for more customization
« on: February 06, 2011, 06:07:03 PM »
As a woman who has quite a bit of junk in her trunk and a ramped up rack, I'd love it if I could make my breasts  larger than small or average, and my ass a bit bigger too.  How about, premium users get more body types and augmentations.  Some guys like their girls bigger than a size 3.  I like showing I'm bigger than a size three...

I know it's fantasy land, but wouldn't some of you guys enjoy a plump ass to cushion you when your 12 inch dicks make her squirt?  Yes, guys should have the option for bigger dicks one supposes, no reason to leave them out.  :D


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