Well Sonia, I came back.  If you manage to set up some kind of list or topic or.. whatever, let me know if you need any volunteers. I followed your guidance to write to developers.  If something changes, it's my fault:)

Jessi, reading in here, it was interesting to see the perspective of those that had been here a long time it didnt discourage me. Opened my eyes I suppose.  I wish i'd come to the forum before entering the party rooms, as it is a useful guide..(.but... well y'know I wanted to SEE 

..).  Forum is very big though...  Lots to get through:)  
I met some people now... they are... interesting:)  but I look forward to say hi if i see you
Thanks again both for support.
Wll