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« on: June 12, 2012, 06:42:47 AM »
Because we had the what turns you on as far as chat I thought it would be a good idea to have the opposite view. So what turns you off as far as chatting. Feel free to include:
Icebreakers (lines or words people use to start the the conversation)
General Chatting Manner
Language Used
Fetish's That Repulse (Though most of them should be self evident)
Weirdest Request
Unreasonable Requests (things you wont do)
Anything you think is prudent
Now the needed example from my pov.
Icebreakers - the biggest turn off in a icebreaker for me is not being able to clearly state something in a sentence. Second biggest is the person telling me they are horny/full of cum/wet. My response for the first one is ... simply yep I am not going to even bother with that person. Second is ...well how nice for you whats your point. (telling me that you horny/full of cum/wet should never be during an icebreaker phase come on I understand that you can be but I may not be so stating it is just silly)
General Chatting Manner - this covers more or less the way they present themselves in the conversation. If mutual interest builds let it build normally if its not building and your forcing it. Its simply rude and less interesting by the second. Generally in conversation I am very easy-going but there are things that i have problems with. An example was someone whom was a little tipsy talking on behalf of his girlfriend and himself and looking for an online girlfriend on top to act out fantasies. The person was completely unclear and when called on it just became rude. Eventually if your doing that its either ignore or just leave you to your devices.
Language Used - As a primary English speaker ... I can understand not all the people on Achat share that linguistic background but a clear attempt is preferable. That being said I have found those that speak in broken English tend to speak it better then the god awful people that speak in ebonics. (Which is pretty much slang heavy and without context completely unclear and not worth even acknowledging. Also swearing, being insulting calling names is quick way to loose interest ... in context is fine but at least check first.
Fetish's that repulse - The requests that I have had are a little weird when it comes to RP ... these include the ageplay, incest forced domination .. etc. These are just a complete turn off (obviously there is more to the list but lets put it this way I prefer not to state them).
Weirdest Request - I have ever gotten from a person on achat was to hop on the cams with him and tell him how to abuse his genitals and ass. That was just weird completely just ... good god no. Main reason why is because there is no fun there for me I dont like seeing people hurt its just ... a no no for me.
Unreasonable Requests - for me thats self evident. As I like to keep my achat and real life seperate most unreasonable request is to meet or to exchange personal details of any kind. (we know the reason why from the other post and other topics on here so I dont want to restate it)