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This is a really interesting discussion. To be honest I think that breaking the ice is not very difficult from a woman's point of view. I just think most of the men are just too superficial to break the ice. I do not want to tell all the secrets about women but I would like to agree to a few of the points that have been mentioned before and add maybe some new sights.
First of all, men tend to not to read profiles carefully enough. We do spent a lot of time in being creative in filling out our profiles. If a “female” profile is not completely filled out I tend to assume that this “female” is not really a “female” in real life
So if we spent lot sof thinking in our profile text then we went people to read and recognize what we wrote. So reading the profile and starting the conversation according to what girls have written IS REALLY an ice-breaker.Another think is the greetings with just a plain “hi” or “hello” or “how r u”. If I wouldn't be fine I wouldn't be online with AChat at the moment so the question is completely useless. Especially if women have a “talkative” attribute in her profile – do not expect to break the ice with a simple one word comment. Try to adress her in full sentences with some kind of a sentence structure.
Again, comments about our dresses are REALLY welcomed. We do not spent hours in front of a mirror, shopping four hours to find the right dress and like to change our dresses according to the mood for the reason that nobody recognizes. So if you see a girl in nylon stockings, a latex dress or a belly dancer outfit that might be points where you could start a conversation with.
And what is also interferes the effort to break the ice is the too early question if a girl wants to join room with you or even if she wanna fuck. Guys please, in times of emancipation don't you think we would not let you know as soon as we would like to join room with you or want to have sexual fun? Additionally, at least for me it is often the case that I have aparallel chats with more than just one nice guy. So I do not stop all the chats immediately just to quickly jump into a room with someone I just met a few sentences before. So rely on the fact that a real, self-assured women will ask you to join room when she is ready for it.
As I said I do not want to tell you too many secrets but just for the guys that just need a virtual whore to get off: look rather for the “females” with a “sex maniac” attribute in their profile than for the ladies that say “romantic” or “talkative” in it!
Well guys, any questions left or did I just scared you away?
P.S.: If a guy takes those tips by heart I am pretty sure that he will increase his chances to break the ice with a girl from 2-3 % to 95 % and that is pretty good. YOu never get a 100 % guarantee for anything in life. Therefore, 95 % is pretty good, isn't it?
Thanks Lydiarose that's pretty much what I'm like most of the time and again thank you all for taking the time to contribute this is a really great community here on the forum.
I could post some messages of mercer from the very beginning were he was a little more pushy
. The answers given here are overall a pretty good example, adding some creativity is always helpful, standing out of the ordinary is a big plus!Will be helpful for many members. Hope they also read this topic
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