Easiest Approach to Maximize your success with some of the ladies

[medjai]

Welcome to the forum Kadanu

You're perfectly right, men should think more about what you ladies want and less about what they want, but just like in real life rudeness and selfishness is around every corner and there's really nothing you can do about it except don't pay attention and move on.

Wish you to find more gentlemen 

[hentaiboy69]

I have notice most of the rude men tend to be under 25 years (well, that's how they set their age here), but there are allways exception.

so, girls, don't be sad, nice guys are around, just need to find them!

[Adera]

Welcome Kadanu.

I also think it's important for guys to listen to what we like, though remember not to get greedy yourself :. I think that it's the most fun when you find a common fantasy or interest to talk about and the best way to find that is to listen to each other.

As a tgirl I get about as many bad requests from females as I do from men so for me it's more like finding the good people amongst everyone.

[Azrielle]

Welcome Kadanu! Mwah!

… And HB is so right… as in real life, it seems the under 25 male is as rude as they come. I've had more than my fair share of messages that hit the bin quicker than a whore's panties dropping to the floor.

The Gentleman are out there… (Like you Medjai), but they are few and far between. If only they could all be perfect, then us ladies could have our own Harems… hehehe.

Mwah!
Az.

[Janine Dee]

And read the profile. A guy telling a gay girl he wants to fuck her is going to have about as much success on AChat as in real life.

I know there are some girls who use homo to try to filter guys, but assuming that's the case will just have all us sincerely gay girls wanting to filter/ignore or whatever.

[Rukya]

hmmm , i think they dont only need to look what we like , but they need too to understand what we are . I always laugh when a man say to me ” try me , maybe you will find it better than with latex ” or ” you know its better with a real cock ”

[Lover]

Welcome Kadanu

Some stupid user forget there are rela people behind the avas. Whatever you do, show you are really interested in the person you talk to.
One problem may be, the idiots (or those who are unable to have a good talk) don't read this forum.

At least there is a market for everyone – we are against the whores, but they can be a help for those who can't or don't wanna talk

[Brandybee]

Welcome Kadanu ,  I hear ya …

Pity when the guys search for a girl, then a pop up with your post comes up first

Bet the guys & co.. would like the same thing too for their preferences  hehe

Would certainly cut down on the colds and make for more interesting conversations…  mmmm … now theres a thought

Enjoy your time here. xx

[jay9]

That's a great post Kadanu.

It always amazes me how poor the behaviour is from a lot of the males on here (only going on what women tell me!), but I guess in number there are many more males, so it's a relative thing at the end of the day.

Speaking selfishly, I wish you hadn't posted such articulate tips for success for everyone else ….. LOL  But seriously, anything that raises the overall quality of the achat community, can only be a good thing for all of us.

I've got to admit though, being considerate and conversational on achat does not always go well rewarded! The number of times i've been in what i thought was a flirty chat going well, only to then find the girl has disappeared in room with someone else suddenly, doesn't bear thinking about!!! What do they say, “nice guys finish last”. But joking aside, i think people tend to gravitate naturally towards people of similar interests, based on profile look and banner text, etc, so that's just as important right up front in regards to chances of a successful chat eventuating.

Thanks again for a constructive post that started this thread, and thanks to those that have added their thoughts, i found this thread really interesting. Keep up the good work

[hentaiboy69]

There must be a sort of “middle way” and you have to found it, but some girls tend to leave you alone, specially if they are talking to more then one person at time. this happend sometimes.

Anyway, a nice chat is allways wellcome and it have two purpouse:

• the first is to know better your friends (and maybe your future lover or spouse, you can't never know how a simple friendship can evolve)
• the second, is to discover what can fire up the sparkle between you two.

[/list]

Sometimes few words are enough to light up the sparkle or just reading info on profile can give you an hard hit on your mind! and then, it's on both of you how to make that sparkle burn, if you think the other one is really important to you!

here, i can say i'm lucky, i had meet some really nice peoples (boys and girls) and i'm really happy to meet them, only for some chit chatting about daily things, sometimes.

About your chat whit Greg, Kadanu……i think it's one of the rare case i see around! really polite, simple and at last he catch your attention! eh eh!

[Turbolover69]

When my lady tells me what kind of approaches from men she has to deal with, I am sometimes glad to be a man and be spared from that kind of behaviour. At the same time I feel a bit ashamed about those other guys. So, my deepest respect goes to the ladies here who still take it in good humor and don't let idiots ruin their fun.

[mcgeeb]

I heard on the radio the number one compliment a woman enjoys hearing is about their beautiful smile. How true that is, well I don't know.  I'm male. 

[mcgeeb]

Hiya's…

   Welcome to the Forum mcgeeb!  I'm glad to see you posting… please keep sharing your ideas and thoughts.

   It's true mcgeeb.  Hearing any nice compliments is wonderful.  I for one like that, only on here, the smile is pixel generated, as is everything else (good job Dev-Team).  Another thing I like, as a woman is boudoir shoes, only we don't have those…. yet.   

                                 

Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe

Hi Pafe!  I enjoy smiles even on here! 

[Kadanu]

cant believe its been a year since this thread

[Lover]

Time is running
And 1780 vies up to now show the interest in your words.

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