MF Pose Review – 46. Fisting:

[alstott]

@Ardeur i`m totally agree with you, make sure where it  comes from

[islandsun]

Ok I keep looking at the pic ! INFO plz ! That can`t possible be done in real ?  Just cyber right !

[alstott]

Which pic you mean?

[islandsun]

The fisting one !  😮

[alstott]

Well it looks that she enjoys it to me you must try it ,if you wanna know how this works of course its possible

[Janine Dee]

Sunny fisting is a rl sexual practice. It's not something done lightly, but it is done, and it's not TOO unbelievable. I mean we can give birth and a baby is noticeably larger. If you REALLY want to cringe however there IS such a thing as anal fisting, but that's even more out there because while the vagina has a degree of elasticity for giving birth the anal cavity has none and must be watched CAREFULLY for a definite danger of tearing.

[Adera]

The ones practising anal fisting a lot tend to be very loose so I guess they've kinda gotten past the worst part of tearing… though they'll probably have other problems from getting to that point. I guess people like things like that because they'll get pushed to the extreme and for some… pain is lots of pleasure which I don't really understand.

[Janine Dee]

I've always shied away from that sort of thing. One thing that is assured about BDSM is that you WILL have an oops. It's a when not an if, and I'd rather an event like when I first used nipple clamps and left them on her a touch too long then have a trip to the er and the resulting explanations.

[Bear]

Never tried myself to do that to a woman,..though close,…the anal action I wouldn't even consider,…the long term possible ramifications of damage are just too great.

[Adera]

Oh shit Janine, I hope the girl wasn't pissed about it.

[Janine Dee]

Not at all.  Submissives I feel worthy of the title KNOW too that there will be mistakes. Someone can't be expected to perform every technique perfectly every time. When you add the fact that each submissive is a different person  the Dominant has to relearn their technique time and time again. No reasonable person will expect perfection under those circumstances.

That doesn't mean you don't try, but you know that it's GOING to happen.

[Adera]

I would feel a bit bad any way.

[Janine Dee]

I used to beat myself up quite handily over the very concept. The problem with that is the realities of BDSM. The submissive is as responsible as the Dominant for what happens, period.

They may surrender control, but they ARE responsible for who they surrender control to.

If they do it casually with someone they don't know very well there's a fairly good chance they will be hurt, and possibly severely. If they push a  Dominant to do something before the Dominant is ready the odds of an oops go up, the oops being far more serious based on the type of play.

On the other hand a submissive who gets to know the Dominant, their likes, their dislikes, and their limits (we Dominants have them too) the oops that may come is most often the kind of thing that just slows or stops play, needs a little after care and never comes up again.

It's the other types that lead to ER visits and legal issues.

[Adera]

Yeah I guessed you could already handle these kinds of things considering your experience with it.

[TightFit74]

If I understand correctly from Janine's words, there must be a great deal to be agreed on before sub and dom start their play. Seems to be the hardest when you first meet. The more you get to know eachother the easier it gets. But ti seems to me, difficulties start when one party doesn't live up to the agreement and asks for something that might be over their own or the other's limit..

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