As usual, it's all a question of the perspective. Eidamir said many things I second. And so did Woody, Kaitlyn, Lydia…
AChat is a game. AChat is fantasy. AChat is fun. If you play it this way, it doesn't matter who you are and with whom you room and what you're doing then.
But sex and friendship often come along with real, deep feelings. Wanted or not, it may happen. If you reach this point, you will hurt someone if you still just play it as a game.
Looking from this view, the best is to be honest from the beginning or never have any spouses, even no lovers. Never go further than being friends here, never go exclusive.
I also don't see a reason, to have more avis with same gender. For some reasons I do understand to have a different one, but I don't see to have many avis. This alone is suspicious.
