I guess not everyone is here to start a virtual relationship or like mentioned English is not their strong suit so they are very limited in who they can play with so many people not accepting colds. For those who just mainly want to have physical interaction the best bet is to use the blind date feature, that's what I use most of the time since I rarely get a response when messaging people no matter how I do it and I actually started to click with someone I met with "blind date".