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Michelle989
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« : January 16, 2020, 08:41:09 PM »

In the 6 months since joining Achat I am finding that I am beginning to feel confident in meeting men in the real world . Largely it's to do with the positive friendships I have made here people like Lucio69 And Myk _EP have boasted  my confidence simply by being there for me, in the real world I only ever seem to meet  arrogant and self interested ppl that seem intent on one thing, although this is a sex program I find the values of ppl here superior to anyone I could meet. In reality I often realalise that the person I best get on with are largely so much older than myself which is sad in some ways as I know it could never progress o more than meetings here. As a shy person lacking confidence I meet some dominate males in Achat like the Cult, I seem to have the need to meet them  it's confusing how that aspect helps boast my confidence, but the idea of submission just feels right to me and I guess given the right individual could work for me in the real world to. I am always open to suggestions about what I should look for in a man in the future.
thecult
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« #1 : January 18, 2020, 03:25:14 AM »

Michelle is a wonderful girl. I was very lucky to have met her.
Respect her, love her.

swaeck
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« #2 : January 28, 2020, 01:01:23 PM »

Hi Michelle, I would like to suggest that you leave the real and the virtual distinct, in this case aChat. It's true, people like Lucio69, Myk_EP and a few others are wonderful, the same I have met in my 8 years of attendance and so far only two know 20% of me. This is not out of lack of trust but only because perhaps the world of aChat is beautiful because it is secret. Then ... if you are looking for a man with whom to establish a serious relationship you should start looking elsewhere, not because there are none in aChat, but because it would be more difficult and long as a search given the possibility of lying that this place offers and believe me, hypocritical and false people are not only out, but above all here. I wish you to find what you are looking for that should not be suggested by others but felt by yourself. Now I'll quit otherwise you will blacklist me as a pedantic and boring man. @->--------
Michelle989
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« #3 : February 09, 2020, 08:41:57 PM »

Hi Michelle, I would like to suggest that you leave the real and the virtual distinct, in this case aChat. It's true, people like Lucio69, Myk_EP and a few others are wonderful, the same I have met in my 8 years of attendance and so far only two know 20% of me. This is not out of lack of trust but only because perhaps the world of aChat is beautiful because it is secret. Then ... if you are looking for a man with whom to establish a serious relationship you should start looking elsewhere, not because there are none in aChat, but because it would be more difficult and long as a search given the possibility of lying that this place offers and believe me, hypocritical and false people are not only out, but above all here. I wish you to find what you are looking for that should not be suggested by others but felt by yourself. Now I'll quit otherwise you will blacklist me as a pedantic and boring man. @->--------

I am sorry it's taken a while to reply, I understand your comment and agree with much of what you say, I guess if I find that special man it would be the time to leave Achat, but not before saying goodbye to the friends including you I have met here, right now it is perfect for me as I focus on my career, let's say I am alone when working in Exmouth but never lonely, i recognise I would have a high sex drive to the point I would get a reputation as a slut,  so Achat simply suits my needs when I wake up early in the morning feeling excited, you guys have porn to watch after all, I need the interaction of real people with no real commitment. That said I have real feelings for friends here especially my Husband and Myk and so many more too


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