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Welcome Back mhy friend!
I feel happy if she feel happy! She is friend of Wonder Woman and Tomb Rider! She have good company! hahahaah
I big kisses to you and to her!Infinite Kisses ….
Hi Lydia *hugs*
First……. another *BIG Squeeze* Thank you for thinking of me, for taking time from your day to share your thoughts n feelings. I always appreciate acts of kindness but when received from someone admired n respected it means so much more.
Second ……. it appears you “snuck” in another post while I was replying to your previous post. hmmm, that's what I get for being so WORDY. 😮
So, I will reply to that post later. But I will say this much… I too miss some good friends here that have gone to other worlds, some fed up with stupid behavior, some with Achat Devs and others have just moved on. It is not like it was when I was first here, as a real newbie. Meeting places were fun, happy n filled with silliness n laughter. A place to meet with friends and have fun. Then things began to change as often is the case. It is sad but I will always have those memories of them.
OK, back to my original post …
When I think of you, Lydia, I am always reminded of an early writing, Army of One, back when Andrea first infected me with her writing “BUG”. YOU have always represented that image to me. The fearless, perseverant, quiet and wise warrior…. preferring to resolve battles behind the scenes without drama n noise. Using and choosing words only when necessary, just as a warrior would their arsenal.
Words like weapons should be used with respect and an understanding of their limitless power. Once spoken…. they have no owner and can never be taken back. Where they travel and how they are interpreted are no longer in the author’s control. Too many of us, myself included, use words haphazardly allowing our mouths to move faster than our brains… and our hearts. We don’t realize, until it is far too late, the ripple effect that even the smallest of hurts can cause.
OK, I am rambling…. as usual, so let me get to the point. Which is Lydia’s post and her Physicians comments.
It is me who couldn’t sleep this morning, my body not yet in synch with my new time zone. My brain awash with countless thoughts most of which I have no control over. This is when I feel its poison building slowly inside, starting deep in my tummy before spreading its acid everywhere. When I start to think of all the hatred, cruelty, injustice n fear in our world it begins to poison me. It infects me within my thoughts making me it’s prisoner. The effects are physical, tangible, real. Our thoughts n feelings can control bodily functions we have little “voluntary” control. It is kinda like Newton’s 3rd Law “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.”
Imagine if just “thinking” of these thoughts can cause such a reaction….. what could “uttering” them do? How many more would be infected, would feel the acidic taste of hate deep inside?
Each one of us is responsible. We each have a choice we make countless times every day. How are we going to see our world? How are we going to live our life? How are we going to treat others? These we ALL have a choice in, and we should be careful in our decisions. This is the “CAUSE”….. Because collectively over our lives the choices we make each day will provide the answer to one of the most important n intimate questions we will ever face and which we will have absolutely no “choice” in…..
How will we see ourselves in the mirror?
How will we live with our words n actions?….. and this is its “EFFECT”.ooops, rambling again, better get back to Lydia’s post….
So YES, Lydia, I understand your Doc’s point. Getting mad at all the “arseholes” in our world is unhealthy for us. It is like a cancer, it eats away at our outlook, at our future. And ultimately our happiness. This is why… naive or not, foolish or wise, I prefer to see the “GOOD” in our world. I accept there will always be some “BAD” in our worlds but I know there is more “GOOD” around me than I could ever absorb in a lifetime. I prefer to surround myself with them. With spirits like YOU.
Hmm, sure hope I am not being charged by the word for this posting in your “Bitches Corner”
Thank you again my friend.
Kait
to my two friends I have put your names up in lights in the game I play now lol
cassianna not happy her name is under the other names so I did this for cassianna to make up for it
on a night out with my friends
hi all I know we all had snow over the last week but this is why I love Ireland
this was Friday could not move
and this was the Monday
my daughter asked if I would learn her to drive, so I said I would ( she is only eight years old ) so I got her this
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