Thanks people for all kind words 
Had to cancel all festivities though
, after visiting that airshow yesterday i'm struck down with a heatstroke and some terrible sunburns on top of my head, in my face and neck and on my arms. I could easy pass as a indian as my skin is red like a freshly cooked lobster.
Only my parents came over to visit me, for the rest, it's a birthday to forget, jumping in the shower every few hours and applying some cooling gel to get the heat out of my skin, to keep the pain bearable 
So thank you all for the kind words here today, it's something i really needed