OK, she is not posting here so i think we should not talk about her. In my opinion she is complicated, perhaps a bit afraid and uncofident. But in this case I understand Fan.
Blu' some people will use the privacy of a room for uninterrupted conversation. The best that could be said here is a signal misread or advance taken too quickly.
Well then it seems this is just one who has their own issues…, move on and let it go.
I had a partner who would immediately bail every time I penetrated…they always blamed their computer., but it seems though they could room for hours with others. Some folks just enjoy yanking ones chain for fun. Don't let it get to you.