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[Bear]

While I think Kitten is right, I also get what Bear is saying.

So perhaps refining the idea to, both partners should be just that, partners in what is happening.

Even IRL you will have times when you just have your partner lay back and you pleasure them. It's not bad, it's not greedy, but when it becomes the norm it quickly becomes dull.

When you factor text in sometimes the partner's reactions is really necessary to what you are typing.

In both cases it's when it goes too far it becomes a problem.

There, is the absolute to the truth here in this…

@Adera…  your last sentence is the important one… I had to giggle when I suddenly thought of a partner with who I had orgasmed… pushing on to another pose… she knew how old I was… but treated me like I was an 18 year old locked into a perpetual hard on…

[Bear]

Just to be clear is there a central theme?

“New Years Resolution”  came across as a suggestion …

[Bear]

@ Cazzy
! – REPORT FACILITY ON MESSAGE SYSTEM

Makes sense Cazzy,… there should be a provision made to be able tot forward the message to support if it is offensive.<br><br>Sad to think we have this need arise, but some way should be made  to address it when requiredl.

[Bear]

well there are plenty of open slots on these poses… additional actions can be added to compliment them.

[Bear]

Giving You a pass on the ramblings this am… : 🙂

mmmm glad you see my point concerning the fingering 😉 … and yes I am a naughty sort when it comes to this, would you want me any other way?

I thought about our conversation, … that point of restraint obedience vs voluntary obedience raised when I mentioned the chained wall pose. It definitely makes sense, though I was concerned about the similarity to the handcuffed standing pose. Standing handcuffed could easily be adapted to a punishment pose,… though it doesn’t quite meet the requirements of a voluntary obedience… I see these poses pretty well as mutually exclusive

Might add to a voluntary standing obedience:
Punisher:
* Neck Grab
* Suck nipples
* fondle breasts
* flog thighs

Punishee:
* Kiss
* Caress/ Breast nipple play
* masturbate ass
* caress body (self)

probably can think of more but would add/modify suggestions latter

The guy only has two hands so I am not certain how one figures to work a paddle into this. Course the woman could have a paddle and self discipline herself… self spanking could be a definite add.

[Bear]

oh my… many thanks to the A-team in this. Truly wonderful news.

[Bear]

mmm saying never ever… to burst typing..

Disagree,… and know a number of partners who would disagree. I t doesn't appeal to everyone,… but there are types of play,.. levels of play where pushing the tempo,.. the pace,… intensity of the actions  can be best manipulated by a flurry of burst typing. That is totally dependent on the bonds and connections that 2 players have. Familiarity of play allows adaption in the course of chat exchange and reactions and does allow for a incorporating some assumption of reaction.

The rule should be never presume the reaction until you know,… absolutely know your partners reactions

It is important to maintain connection of reactions, expressing that into the flow of the chat. I f they are too silent, I simply weave a playful question into the actions. Test the responses,  the excitement level.  Honestly if they are busy with themselves… I'll pick it up,… and carry on the erotic text pressing on while they indulge.

just my A$0.02

[Bear]

a delicious hmmm.. 
though my bed more adapted for such play… you can watch yourself ride in the mirror set in the bookcase headboard.

[Bear]

hard fingering of the pussy should be added (or fingers in pussy and thumb in ass ) …

So what women options would you add?

self masturbation?

[Bear]

It was simply an update of an existing pose, new features were added. A freebie for those who already have bought it.

Lying on man bed pose upgrade.

[Bear]

@ sunny…

nah.. playful sarcastism.. me?.. “prim and proper?”… that is unless you want to be in trouble…
*evil grin*

[Bear]

It just isn't a new player issue,… even experienced player make a mistake …

I just consider it wrong to punish someone like that… but there again Fantasy may have enough friends not to be concerned about that. For her the trade off might mean minimal effect. Lord knows there are plenty of good players out there and too little time unless you spend endless hours signed in.

[Bear]

a single strike option would work… there are times when that is all I want lay out… caress and stroke.. that stinging flesh b4 laying another on her.

I hate trying to stop the actions of the av’ while my intent of narration is broken by the inconsistent visual to the words…

: 🙂 perhaps I need more practice. 😛

[Bear]

Both of you raise good points in this matter…

[Bear]

An important distinction though Kitten'… my vocal language is quite distinct from the use of standard English language.

Accent, regional and social classifications  influence the manner we express ourselves. My written skills are quite distinctive from my verbal. Drop someone trained solely in standard English formats, and they can be easily lost in the normal flow of regional dialects.

There is a town near me which was center of sociological studies in the 60's due to the dialectic changes in the vocal expression. At it's core it was English… but the radical restructuring of the language in meaning of words, sentence structure… a unique language manifested.  You can still go there, hear  English spoken and have absolutely no clue what they are saying.

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