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There may valid reasons for doing secret lists.. some take the stance who they play with is no one's buisness… other have had nothing but heart aches and troubles from folks feeling slighted in positions of the existing levels. I have one secret friend… not certain why they chose secret… they have pages of friends… and it rather makes me feel odd about it.
Is there something wrong with me? Adnitting that I am their friend? :
shhhhsh sinnnn… (no it's not her… but expecting a smarty comment)
Must have been the pyrotechnics of the romance play…. As it is Lover… the discussions already exist… “why am I not your spouse? Why you choose him?”… I had one friend lose a portion of her lover and friend list when she spoused someone.
I like the label of VIP over spouse myself…”spouse” just seems too extreme…
mmm lets just stroke this thread a different way…
The topic was getting far too dark…Being a dominate/top….(from “A Submissives Journey”) means :
“Being in control of oneself, which leads to other similar traits. Knowing what you want, and being single-minded about it. Not being egotistical or self centered, but being able to hear what others need, and want, from you, and using the power, knowledge, and experience that you have to fulfill those needs. Self control also stems from the ability to analyze, and understand yourself, and others.”
“To have another hand over control of their life, (or at least parts of it) to you is an awesome feeling. It must be borne with great care, and never abused. So, a Dominant does not abuse the power they are given. They never take that power, they are given it out of love, trust, and respect, and the feeling that they can improve the quality of another's life. “
That's why real cowboys have lasso's
Good looking chaps … but foremost I like the heavy beltbuckle on the jeans… remings me of my silver one I wear with the black 501's… though I have a small turquiouis stone set in it.
Love the western shirt…Note to self:… look for your hat…
Apparently somthing I did not burn down… :
sinnnn!!!
Body modifiactions are stirctly a pet's decision IMO.
In no way… absolutely NO F'****** way does any person have the right to force another human being to such extremes as castoration or other deformity against their will. That speaks totally of slavery beyond acceptable limits…a viloation of the subordinates trust in their owner/top. The Top in such case should be put away, locked up..
To me this is a form of activity falls outside acceptable limits that it is not consensual …
Personally in my play… her orgasm is the absolute accent of her want in service to me… I am not talking of one singular.. but finding and devloping the capabiltiy of acheiving edge and riding it, slide across and within seconds be back again to that point…better still when they are voice trained to it…It's like being given the keys t o a Ferrarri
