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  • in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65721
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      Brandy… if the imagery involves handcuffs… then it's still the right thread…  ;)

      in reply to: What turns you off in chatting? #65325
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        Well I don't “troll” out there for responses too often anymore, I would recommend that any new player understand a couple of points…

        One the prospective party you are approaching is likely in conversation…
        Two… possibly that party is heavily battereed with chat…

        a “hi” isn't a bad thing in my opinion…  I respond to “Hi” a lot…  it's what follows that counts if you get a response..

        I think that most will agree,… responding to a “hi” is giving them a chance to make an impression…they should use the opportunity wisely…

        Where I get turned off is impatience… that my response is a greenlight and presumption I am going to just immediately room. Worst asking me if I like 3some play and immediately giving me the cold invite … on presumptions of my yes meaning right now… BIG turnoff.

        in reply to: Clothes Idea. Latex clothing #65662
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          I only commented because it made me reread the thread 4 times trying to figure it out…

          Bottom line the mens latex outfits are viable… we just have yet to hear of a male admitting they would wear them.

          in reply to: Clothes Idea. Latex clothing #65660
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            Isle or Aisle?

            mmm perhaps Isle… Fantasy Island… Fantasy Aisle….?

            look! Dee plane.. dee plane!

            No fair correcting Brandy….

            in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65718
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              lol.. you were reading my mind again Christy…

              in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65716
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                In terms of more mainstreamed play… those are perfect choices.. Brandy…

                Use of a rose… or rose petal tracing light along the body… or across a nipple….delisiously teasing a partner cuffed or bound to the bed…
                Ice cubes.. lace…. a wide satin ribbon… or the tickle of soft rabbit fur….something as subtle as the breath of another…. melted wax… or heated body butter dripped lazily across the skin and slowly cleaned away…all those tug on the erotic sense of the play.

                It does not fall int the wilder… extreme  side of bdsm play…. but truly for those that enjoy the sensual aspect of it… those are important components.
                Quite frankly… elemnets I think all would love to have opened in pose development for that special someone and that perfect moment…

                mmm that is when you want the lights turned low… and candles illuminating the skin of your lover…

                in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65713
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                  An FYI on the obediance pose… the male is bound… the female submissive in MF play is not. These would make wonderful ads to the female options to the existing obediance pose Christy. I am thinking that perhaps they need a better male submissive obediance pose… unbound as you mention.

                  in FF play is the submissive bound or not?

                  in reply to: MF. Pose Review – 177. Sex Swing: #65681
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                    Slowing the speed is an east fix… however the fault in that is some of the options therefore are forced into the slow motion…and loses the overall effect.

                    Hard to draw an true conclusion of the overall qaulity of the pose until they fix that default speed… which reminds me,…

                    In this case where you are botherd by the speed I might suggest contacting your concerns to support and see if they take notice by the numbers of complaints to correct the issue.

                    It really does have some wonderful qualities,… it's just hampered in appreciation by the speed.

                    in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65709
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                      : 🙂 mmm…
                      squirm….
                      blink
                      shake head

                      that’s the issue with the bondage poses… the subs do not have much as to options…

                      in reply to: MF. Pose Review – 177. Sex Swing: #65677
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                        Actually there are a good number of controlling actions by the female…  ::)  maybe you need to recheck…

                        in reply to: personal ads… discusss the ISSUE #65573
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                          Lol… Happy to interview … but too long of interview and methinks the bath water might get cold.

                          as to on topic… I think Christy's post there a perfect example of what I would like folks to place there… or in an introdustion thread. I t represents an excellent option for giving a quick summation of  services… or approaches being ofered.

                          in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65711
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                            Blu’ I have told you before to use mirrors in your play.. 😉

                            no excuses are accepted…

                            in reply to: Collars and Pet Necklaces #43411
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                              Then I would recommend discussing what expectations you are looking for in a collaring ceremony… seriously, I would not rely on the developers to understand all the elemnets of expectations there. The ceremony will differ from individual to individual…each with a differring attitude of the use in the ritualistic ceremony.

                              When do you use it? How often? Is this a ceremony you perform in each encuonter to trigger the mind set ? Or is it a treated as a one time marriage of the souls…

                              When I have performed it… I utilize the obediance pose…a number of the base actions are there… hmmm I'll have to run that thru with soomeone again to recheck… been awhile since I have utitlzed that pose extensively. I'll have to add my thoughts on this once I get a chance to revisit the pose. Then elborate on what I would expect of the matter.

                              My point being though,  if you are going to speak of the ceremony… then you should offer samples of your own for their consideration…

                              in reply to: BDSM Accessories #65702
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                                face palm… : 🙂

                                duh… ok…. my mind set was elsewhere,… hmmm…. that may not be feasible…the female/shemale feet ware pretty well afixed as to their positioning… you run into the same issues that requests for low heels or flat fotted designs have… that would require a rewrite of the avatar body to accomidate. Perhaps a stelleto verion of a normal offering might represent a close fasimile. About all I can come up with there.

                                in reply to: MF. Pose Review – 177. Sex Swing: #65673
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                                  lol.. no problem there… I did make mention originally I would add matters once I had to check it out… Azrielle and I had a long discussion over the pose…and as Taz mentioned there are some things missing… yet I figure it created in such a way as to be adaptable for the other orientations without too much effort.

                                  I see only the femlaes Chest scrape as the only action that will need to be modified… perhaps a mssage breast will work there instead.

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