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[TightFit74]

I'd love to be on that guestlist. Have been extremely busy lately, not finding time nor energy for either AChat or the forum, but will try and clear my schedule some, to ponder about my outfit and add my contributiuon to the thread… Hmmm, I need to think about who I'd like to run into once I entered the party…

[TightFit74]

What cowboy hats for sunny and I?
That's kind of you…

For TIght's RP idea AND your cowboy hats. When you get them, I'll join you both on the range to create our own version of Brokeback Mountain  I am hoping that “RP, Role Play, or Descriptive” becomes a search option.

ms Keiko, will you join Sunny and Bear or me and Bear?

just kidding….

[TightFit74]

ms Keiko,

If you are ever looking for a quality actor for a long, feature movie, one with an actual story, contact my agent

(sorry, can't help this light comment in this serious thread )

[TightFit74]

Adera, I didn't assume you were innocent..

[TightFit74]

I assume both will come. Surprisingly they brought out FF and SF first.. that is a new thing, since usually they do MF first, the followed by the rest…

[TightFit74]

Bear,

for you and me and a number of other members, the imagination is the main tool, translated into words, complemented by the poses and graphics presented in AChat. But for most (correct me if I am wrong), the graphics are the main drive for their imagination, not the words.

For us AChat might be a chat platform, I am guessing for most it is more a platform for interactive porn, being their own director, doing the poses they like most. A detached mode, seeing the avatars as actors.

Looking at it from that viewpoint, a cold invite is similar to going to the videostore and picking out a movie…

[TightFit74]

@ Janine congrats ms Janine, profing true will power, relentless on fighting for the lesbian base (and other 'minorities').. *taking a deep bow*

@Adera I never said where the loss of weight was left behind…

[TightFit74]

Fire place lightning and the moon light look very appealing to me. For the fire place I share the same sentiments as Bear. Would be perfect if the light was actually moving real time..

ms Keiko, thanks for showing us what you meant. I need some visual stimulation sometimes to understand some things

[TightFit74]

Susy, this should be really the easiest thing to do. Can you maybe shine some light on the thoughts of the dev team about this suggestion?

[TightFit74]

@Janine are you challenging the girls to get in Bear's bed or on his ignore list?

Sad to say my list isn't clean. Some comments have been so rude/vulgair, I felt no desire to ever be contacted by that person again and wanting to make sure it wasn't possible.

[TightFit74]

SueCB,

indeed only about 7% of our communication is what we say. How we say things overs about 35% of communication, the rest is all body language (posture, facial expression, tention in muscles). There is a hige chance of misunderstanding eachother whenonly sharing words. Even though there is a very small possibility to strengthen what you say, with the gesture and actions in AChat, it is not personal, the pixelation of a preset action.

I can fully share myself behind your ideas about relationships developing here in AChat and what consequences they can have. For me, there is no 100% exclusivity. Though I have heard of spouses in rl, connecting through this game because they are too far apart from eachother to connect in the flesh. For such intimacy, AChat forms a perfect platform. But I don’t see the program (as you dislike it being called a game

😉 ) created for that purpose. Most people want to meet new people, from all over the world and not limit themselves to one person. Not even touching the subject of time-differences etc.

For me the game is for social interaction, being very careful with who I share intimacy with. I make sure the one I meet, has at least some of my interests and I am not afraid to say during or after being together, it didn’t work out as I had hoped or expected. Some of the people I have met, I have let come pretty close to me. But that doesn’t happen over night, It takes time to develop a relatioship that goes beyong sharing a sexual fantasy.

This game for me is about friendship, sexuality and intimacy. Trying to leave some of the drama of real life at home. But always being there for my friend.

[TightFit74]

The imposters are one of the reasons why I take an effort in getting to know my prospective partner first before entering a room or starting an rp. To me it is very important to have a click with someone before sharing any kind of intimacy. Sometimes the click is there immediatly, sometimes it can take weeks before getting close enough for a close encounter of the sexual kind

I'd rather spend a night on AChat without rooming or playing with anyone, as to have 10 encounters which are empty and meaningless. I have learned that taking the time to get to know someone, treat her with respects and dignity (within an rp this can change however) gives a meeting much more satisfaction and often ensures a prolonged connection.

The subject has been discussed before and it seems there isn't much we can do about it. Once we start compiling a list of (suspected)  imposters, they simply make a new female avatar and start all over. It is rather easy to do that. My suggestion: invest some time in your partner, the best insurance for a satisfactory meeting…

[TightFit74]

The banner space allows only 64 characters. That isn't a lot if you want to give a little info about yourself. There have been requests for a bigger banner space, but no reply or action from the dev team. If there is any concern about doing it, I can only imagine they don't want the windw in which a selected avatar is shown, to get smaller.

Since the game is very visually oriented, I think it is rather logic why guys/girls go for looks first before reading a profile. Not that I approve, I have been asked questions of which the answer is written in my profile. I think it is also a way of making conversation, not knowing wha to say at the moment?

SueCB, I think you are making a valid point when saying the chat-possibilities in AChat have been lagging development. There has been none since I became a member. Just the general chat they had running for a few days, other than that it is still the same. The general chatbox was a lot of fun, but it could have been set up in a better way. When it was removed, the dev team promised (or mentioned) it would return in some form or another, but it has been over a year. So I am not holding my breath over it.

I do hope they will improve the way the chat works, because so many posts have been complaining about it. I don't think there is a single person who has never sent a message to the wrong person. Which can be very embarrassing at times..

A statement from the dev team on the presented view points would be greatly appreciated..

[TightFit74]

If I haven't welcomed you yet Minca, welcome and please, call me Tight as almost everyone does here.
Your idea of initial penetration makes me shiver.. The idea stimulated my imagination immediatly. A tantalisingly slow merging with a partner is one of the sexiest things I have ever done and felt. And when finally fused together, staying idle for a while to look deep into the eyes of my partner (if the position allows it ) while letting the intimacy wash over mind and body… *sigh* I need a cold shower….

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Haven't voted yet, since my opinion on what to release next has been made clear pretty well I think.
If anything, I would like to see more poses for FF, MM and MS (not excluding 3some variations). These are the fields where members have not been met adequatly and need a lot more improvement!

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