Forum Replies Created
-
ummm… I am sitting here with a hardon… waiting for the continuation of your story sunny..
that is unless you are awaiting more direct intimate “input”
I have done a couple forced rp's though I personally don't find it that entertaining. There is something more compelling of a willing partner you unravel the mysteries of the play with.
Lol.. glad I got my play time in Zinah, after reading that paragraph I'll be lucky to find you free for a long time.
I cringe at the word rape on that pose,.. I see it as extreme ,… hot,
… definitely pushing the fringe of hard passionate lust. That's how it goes sometimes, when the moment is definitely raw and unbridled. It's a good pose for when things are well along … and there is definitely a big difference from the vaginal verses anal side of the approach. The spectrum of play is damn wide and poses will not appeal to every person.If they did this would be a pretty boring place. Guys doing dominating play are probably a dime a dozen,… finding a subby type who can interact and project their feelings,…sensations, are the real rare commodity. It's one reason I don't extend that side of my Dom play to everyone, just too much work, and hardly entertaining if the partner is silent or provides basic bland responses. “oh that cock feels good there..” doesn't do it for me.
So what your mistress said is true bluedemin,… when a sub gives themselves over, they create in their offer a unique bond that they can shatter at a whim. It's one reason when I do find a partner with whom I thoroughly enjoy spending that energy on, I try to make certain each experience is evoking and different. I want them to hold a desire to return and find something new in their play with me. A Dom/Domme holds their value in creating a need in the relationship they form with their sub, that “need” being a desire in their subordinate to be driven to continue that connection. Around here there is certainly a big difference between those whose need is an rp of ownership, and those whose need is driven by the style of play and the connection it creates.
Adera there might be those who want the silent type.. . but it is hardly entertaining, and quite difficult to unravel exactly what play gets them turned on and unhinged. I am not a mindreader.that gets me thinking Janine… :
This might have been a more interesting pose if started barehanded, with the options of a number of tools say the paddle, crop, barehanded, flogger as choices for inflicting punishment.
I started to check slot availability earlier, but got sidetracked :
anyways there are probably 10 open slots there for additional options on the pose. One could program an anticipation slot with the new implement (for descriptive build up… and an accompanying action of the tool.
Say with the paddle:… the punishor could be smacking his own hand to provide buildup opportunity .. then paddle the punishee..Something similar for the flogger,… the interlude need with the implement present because in use there should be some anticipation of the action.. a flogger I definitely use in erotic stimulation… not just for whipping… just feeling those lashes dragging across the skin or legs is a huge build up for the receiver.
The point is the pose can be revised with options which will intensify and provide some diversity of play.
An odd survey, I am not certain what she is driving at.
As much as I enjoy a partner who appreciates receiving anal, I understand not all are into it..never ever do I presume. It's one of those actions you definitely have to respect your partners comfort level.
If one knows how to do it, and focus on the sensual side of play with it, even herein the VR, well …