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Sensual Domination.
I am a sensual Dominant Alpha-Male and an accidental BDSM story writer, having been asked to write stories for a small contest and also by my partners.
I was asked and pulled into writing reports for a Role Play type newspaper by my then partner at the time.
Initially it was an exciting project but when real life kicked in with the organisers, interest waned and I was left with some reports ready to be published but with no platform.All my articles were and are written from the perspective of a heterosexual Dominant Male which not intended to infer all women are always submissive and all men are always dominant or all people are heterosexual, it is merely my natural bias and personal perspective. I cannot write about other perspectives since I have never experienced them.
I spoke to the “Editor” of this RP newspaper and it was a natural progression and agreement to post in forum. After lots of positive feedback, I have continued to post, and answer queries where I can. Most are of sensual domination pics that interests me as the followers of this topic have seen.
I believe I was born a Dominant since I have had sexual fantasies involving bondage and urges to dominate women sexually since early puberty.
I have practiced Sensual Domination, an erotic genre of BDSM since the age of 16, when at first I thought my sexuality was unique and something to hide.
Luckily, I was naturally confident and began to research the sex I liked. I soon realised the sex I practised and fantasised about wasn’t so bad after all and there are many who practice it or were intrigued enough to try it. My partners enjoyed what I did and helped me grow as a Dominant and I am very confident in my sexuality.I have tried some extreme BDSM practices but as I do not like the painful practices, I tend to steer clear of these type of events or partners. I know what I like so keep to my boundaries. I used to call myself a Pleasure Dom but now use the more correct term of Sensual Dominant.
Pain does not turn me on at all. I do like however, giving erotic spankings and do use paddles and whips albeit the most injury I cause are stings and red marks, never cuts. I also use wax and ice and sex toys to tease in my sexual play.
Likewise with Dominant ladies – I do not get turned on. I am naturally Dominant so battling for control in the bedroom is a complete turn off for me and a complete waste of a good room or session.
I’m sure it is probably much the same for the lady concerned as well. Such ladies of course do make great friends and are an abundant source of information.
I have shared many dances and good laughs with Domms I am honoured to call friends and have learnt many things.Always be humble enough to be coachable but confident enough to Dominate your position.
I can only speak of my own experiences which are of a heterosexual alpha male. I
discovered on my life’s journey, there are a huge number of people within the BDSM/Fetish community looking for a more sensual alternative to the mainstream BDSM that involves Sadism – “the Pain is pleasure part.”For many newbie subs and Doms to the BDSM community, Sadism is quite scary and intimidating and they are searching for a more sensual and erotic form of BDSM.
You CAN choose the sides of the kink you wish to practice and it’s perfectly OK to call yourself a Dominant and dislike or steer clear of the more extreme practices of the kink.
If this sensual type of sexual play appeals, then you would, like me, be into Sensual Domination.
Sensual Domination – This is the practice of using contrasting Caressing, Sensual Oil Massage, Kissing, Orgasm Denial, bondage / tying up play, discipline commands, Spanking, Impact Play techniques (using toys and sensual messages in build up to rooms / dates) and other things or techniques that in some way control one or more partners but where no pain or sadism is involved.
Most are self-explanatory.
Orgasm Denial.
Erotic sexual denial, also known as orgasm denial, is a sexual practice or sex play in which a person is kept in a heightened state of sexual arousal for an extended length of time without orgasm, and is commonly practiced in association with BDSM and sexual bondage. Erotic sexual denial can be another name for or variant of orgasm control.
One form of erotic sexual denial is the reduction or deprivation of all genital stimulation. To ensure a complete absence of genital stimulation, a chastity device may be used as a physical barrier to genital touch or full erection.Edging comes under this but should be used sparingly. It is keeping your partner teetering on the edge of orgasm but doing this too often de-sensitises your submissive and can ruin them sexually, even losing that ability to cum, or taking so long, the sexual excitement has long gone.
I have come across a submissive girl who could only cum when her Dominant commanded it. Initially this sounds great, but when that Dominant had moved on or passes away, what then? To undo such conditioning is a complete nightmare. Personally I do not like such practices and believe the Dominant to be selfish in expecting this from his or her submissive.
The beauty of the orgasm should be encouraged and practiced and be a noisy as possible. (Especially in public…LOL.)
Erotic spanking
Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. Activities range from a spontaneous smack on bare buttocks during a sexual activity, to occasional sexual role-play, such as age-play, to domestic discipline and may involve the use of a hand or the use of a variety of spanking implements, such as a spanking paddle or cane. Erotic spankings are commonly combined with other forms of sexual foreplay. The most common type of erotic spanking is administered on the bare buttocks, but can also be combined with bondage, in order to heighten sexual arousal and feelings of helplessness.
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